The answer is in the FAQ stickied thread in this section you didn't read. https://forums.digitalpoint.com/thr...ers-answer-of-your-why-where-and-how.2637220/
You require 3 likes from 3 different members. Getting these involves getting involved by offering comments, opinions and advice. Not hard to get these if you try, and you may learn a few things as well as teach by doing this. Good luck to you with that.
And don't forget humour, which Spoiltdiva is excellent at. @OP, look at some of SD's posts to see what I mean, it might help inspire you.