I just watch a moving video about love. The girl has to leave the poor guy she loves very much for her farther's forbidden. In our real life, thus things happen quite often. You mum allows you to marry a poor guy? If not, what you should do?
My parents would never forbid me to marry someone due to their financial status.....it would take more than that to get them to voice their opinion.
wow, this is very difficult for me to answer because it is impossible for me to comprehend. Yet I completely understand how often it happens. Also, I'm male so Im not answering the question from a female perspective. All I want to say is that if you feel differently and want to marry a "poor guy" and understand that it should be irrelevant whether someone has money or not , you should try and talk to your parents, but if they have this point of view they will probably be too stubborn to listen. You should follow your heart, and if your parents can't accept this, then leave for a while , then they will have to re-evaluate their opinion if they want to see their children again. Again it's easy for me to say , and I know that some people are so stubborn that they will dis-own their children for making their own decisions. I would imagine though that all of them that do this ,live the rest of their lives in regret. bit of a sad topic this one.
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I think my family will give me the permission,when iam loving someone she poor or whatever but its depend on two persons,how much they love each other,but i think i will agree them..
I came from Asia cultured, and yes, I know some family DO forbidden their son/daughter get "involved" with other that socially less than they are. But even when i got married and my mom in some fashion way disagree with my choosen one , She still allowed me to do so. Why? Because right or wrong, agree or not, someone decided to get married ARE NOT Child anymore. But if you asking me if my mom not allowed me to marry a poor girl, yes she does ( dispite right or wrong ). I guess the main reason is because some parent hoping we can have a good life.....and they believe, good future doesn't exist with someone less.....
Yes why not? If the guy is nice and loves you then definitely. If not then convince mum that he is the one for you.
sometimes without conscious parents demand that we choose a partner who is more in terms of material. I thought it was normal, because they do not want us to live hard. but I think, be in search of wealth together, more enjoyable.