Think about this for a minute, our thoughts are frequencies. Let that sink in for a moment. In other words, everything you think about is transmitted to the universe through wave frequencies. We've all heard that what we focus on determines the results we get in life. That makes sense. If you want something badly enough, and you focus all your energy on getting it, you'll very likely achieve it. Whereas if you don't focus on getting it, you won't. This is called the Law of Attraction. On the other hand, the Law of Attraction does not discriminate, it works just as well for manifesting the things you do not want into your existence. Allow me to explain further, most people think about what they don't want and wonder why they get more of it. Although if is O.K to observe and realize what you don't want, it is best to shift your focus on what you want, not what you don't want because you are causing more of what you don't when you focus on it. So if you constantly think, "I don't want to be poor. I hate not having any money. I don't earn enough to buy the things I want. My job sucks."--if you SPEND most of your thoughts on the experience of being poor, that's what you get.We all know someone who constantly complains about how unlucky they are, how nothing ever goes right for them. And when you look closely at their life, what do you notice? They're right. They DO seem to have worse luck than the average person. Henry Ford said it so beautifully, he said, "whether you think you can or you think you can't, either way you are right." Think about that one.... Remember, what we resist, we manifest... O.K, so you want to get to the juicy part, how can you Utilize the Law of Attraction? 1. Be a Participant Observer - listen to what your feelings are telling you (We can monitor our thoughts through our feelings. Our emotions let us know what we are thinking.) Ask yourself: What am I feeling right now? Why does this situation make me feel this way? 2. If your focus is negative, replace those thoughts with positive ones. Instead of thinking, "I don't want to be late" say instead, "i do everything that is necessary to get to where I have to be early." 3. Run!! - Run away from negative energy; there is nothing more destructive than negative energy. Tell yourself, "I am only attracted to positive energy and I gladly walk away from anyone that is has negative thoughts about me or anyone that I love." 4. Use the power of Association to your advantage. Look at the kind of people you are currently associating with, are they the kind of influence you are looking for to mold your future? Are they people that have what you want? if so, Can they guide you to success? 5. Surround yourself with positive energy. Make your home radiate positive energy, by means of: Decorating your home with pictures and colors that make you feel good; having good music playing in the background; ask yourself, "what can I do to focus on what will increase the quality of this experience?" In his classic book Think and Grow Rich, Napoleon Hill wrote, "You have ABSOLUTE CONTROL over but one thing, and that is your thoughts. If you fail to control your own mind, you may be sure you will control nothing else." When you focus your thoughts on something you want, and you hold that focus, you are in that moment summoning what you want with the mightiest power in the Universe and that power is the Law of Attraction. Grassi international provides innovative private lessons and options that empower our partakers to transform their lives. With focus on Positive Self-Talk, Awareness, Communication, Self Management & Goal Setting; we have experienced incredibly successful results independently and also in conjunction with mentoring groups from all over the world. Our courses are highly instrumental in manifesting one's goals and achieving optimal productivity and direction in one's life. Available as a life coach and motivational speaker. Please feel free to contact me if you have any questions, comments, or concerns at Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Laura_Grassi