Well, I was making a joke. I've never bought drinks and dinner for a women with the intention of "getting in her pants". Generally if the attraction is mutual, there is not need for a payment. Remember, some women actually like to shag too.
Could you please ad a frigging smilie or whatever then next time, you never know with you guys Yep, thank God women like sex too
Hell no..... I have to spend money on bodyguards to save my dick from all those crazy girls....phewwwww
Considering one of the main aims of life generally is to have kids (therefore sex) I think everyone pays for sex without even realising or admitting it. Be it a payment of sacrificing something, or buying dinner, or whatever. Everyone has done it, unless you dont date very often of course.
Well I don't think it's a simple business deal such as I pay you dinner and I get sex in return. You can give them gifts without get any sex or you can get sex without giving any gifts.
How about this...if women were as willing to have sex with men for free, (I.E. if women wanted sex as often as men do AND acted on the desire when they did want it.) men wouldn't have to pay for sex. lets just say for argument sake that the goal of an evening is to get laid. you don't want a relationship for what ever reason. you just got out of a bad relationship, your to busy working two jobs to pay of the debt your ex-wife left you with when she ran off with the guy she worked with, what ever. now lets figure out the total cost involved in reaching the goal. trip to the bar/redlight district non-pro= $10 pro=$10 a couple of drinks at the bar while looking for a rospect to meet. non-pro= $12 +tip pro=$0 a couple of drinks for the girl you wanna meet (if she accepts) non-pro= $12+tip pro=$0 a couple of more drinks for the girl...(things seem to be going well) non-pro=$12+tip non-pro=$0 her friend comes up and puts the c-block on you. repeat seteps 2, 3,and 4 Non-pro=$36+tip pro=$0 Things are looking really good and it is approching Last-call. one more round for you and her non-pro=$12+tip pro=$0 Trip to her place non-pro=$15 pro=$0 condom non-pro=$2 pro=$0 (they always have a good supply on hand) breakfast in the morning or cab fair home non-pro=$10+tip Pro=$0 My time (based on a $60,000/yr job = $30 per hour, however my personal time should be worth more but...) Non-Pro= minimum 6 hours @ $30 =$180 (including 4 hours at bar, 1 hour meal and car, and one hour "in the Saddle") Pro= maximum 1.5 hours (including car time) =$45 Cost of sex non-pro=$0 pro=$150 the cost of sex is... non-pro = $291 +Tips (+/- $20) = $311 Pro = $215 all-in and I didn't have to listen to you tell me about your sisters a$$-hole boyfriend, what happened at your work today, blah, blah,blah. i also don't have to feel obligated to call a prostitute in the morning and say what a great time i had. i also don't have to worry about her showing up at my house/work unexpectedly, nor do i have to worry about her getting clingy if i decide to see her again. And you think that its pathetic that men pay for sex with prostitutes. I think that it is pathetic that women make us jump through so many hoops to do what you want us to do anyway, all for the sake of your Ego. so you can justify a one night stand.
Good God Chappy! That was a hell of the post to enter DP with. I can't wait to see your reporting and stats input in the Adsense forum. Back to the original question, would I pay for sex. No. But then that depends on what you call payment. Seven years, two kids and a lifetime of domestic chores, motherhood and cleaning the toilet to look forward to seems to me to be more than enough to pay for a little rumpy-pumpy.
That's your cost, the girls cost are Non-pro: Nothing (you pay for everything and she likes it) Pro: Everything, from her self-esteem to the fact that she has to have sex with you (no, she doesn't like it even if she says she does) Women might like to have sex, but thats because we put up with all their quirks, not in spite of it.
the point of the post was to defend my right to choose a prostitute over the tourtue of the bar scene, to answer the original question of would i pay to have sex, and also to compare the costs and success rate of the two. the goal was sex. don't loose focus. if i wanted to "put up with all their quirks" i would get involved in a long-term commited relationship. and in that, i would pay for my sex with mental anguish of "all thier quirks"...LOL my concern is not the Pro's self-esteem and she doesen't "have" to have sex with me. she is making a choice. prostitution is a business (a chosen proffesion that pays quite well). she has the right to refuse service. she is selling time shares of vagina by choice. She has the option to quit at anytime.
Chappy444, there's millions of ways to get free sex.. many of those are totally free. I am sexy, handsome, goodlooking and have no problem to get some free sex. Last time was at friends party, both of us was drunk and both enjoyed the sex(I didn't intend to have sex from the beginning so paying for some booze doesn't count). If you can't make free sex with the hotties, you should look for the uglier women
the question was not "could I have free sex" the question was "would you pay for sex?" i was trying to answer the question and respond to a poster that felt compeld to push her moral stance on everyone by saying that men that pay for sex are pathetic... i was simply presenting sex with a cost containment overlay. and showing that it is not "unreasonable" or "pathetic" to pay for sex. it is simply a choice that some people make. Yes i have had the random, unexpected hookup. my post was about going out to get laid for the sole purpose of getting laid and showing why one method to reach that end might be better/eaiser/cheaper/more appealing than the other
Now here is the OWG way of shagging. Why pay £1000 to sleep with an absolute stunning Halle Berry lookalike, when you can go to a club, get well loaded, and shag a minger for a hell of a lot less. One can buy a decent set of beer goggles in the uk for about £20 (10 pints of beer), and by the time you have drank that much EVERYONE looks like Halle Berry Buy her a decent set of beer goggles as well (Because you don't want her recognising you at a later date). This is going to come in well under £50. By this method you can get 1 shag a fortnight with a beer goggled princess, for a year. Far better value IMO>
Works both ways, fellas. Why do you think those little totties are skulling back the rum and coke as quick as you are necking your pint?