I really don't know what to make of it sometimes. I'm still young enough to have the girls I want, I guess. It's hard to say how I'll feel once I'm 50 +. But I do think a good relationship should always be there to back up the sexual relationship. And if your mate's only agenda is to get into your pockets, I really don't see the appeal in it.
Makes me feel bad for his "wife" left at home. Does he have any kind of relationship with her other than a sexual one? Seems like just using her and not valuing her as a human being.
How about "Have you ever paid for sex?" - nah, prolly the same results heh Chances are, she is using him as well. She wanted to go where the grass appeared to be greener ... So they are both getting what they think is making them happier than before, I guess.
A little close minded if you ask me... For the women that do this kind of work voluntarely i must say it's a good thing they are doing this kind of work. Otherwise there would be a whole lot more of frustrated men out there in the world then already currently exists. If a woman is out on the prowl so to speak there is no problem for her getting sex, just say the word to any random bloke and it's on...a little exxagurated but it comes close to it. If you would turn that around it wouldn't be that likely. A smack in the face is more likely. Some guys are not the relationship type of persons or just not very social with the kind of charming or deciving capacities that other guys have and that have sex for free. I think it's kind of closed minded to frown upon a guy that uses the services of these professionals. I would understand your position if you would see a guy solliciting services from a heroine prostitute since the women is a victim of her addiction and the guy making abuse of it. I don't see nothing morally wrong with it if it is the free choice of the woman in question that chooses this line of work. Those men also have the needs that men have that don't pay or have to pay for it. So why would you deny them having their outlet as well by giving them the look of non-acceptance or as you put it a evil and disgusted look. Not everyone is cut out or interested in a serious type of relation ship or attractive to the opposite sex. You may make assumtions all you want about me for making this post and disagreeing with you and finding you closed minded regarding this subject but maybe you can think for a second about those men that uses the services of these women and there personal restrictions or dilemmas. No this is not a personal plee, it's just me wanted to point out the significance of the professional prostitutes to the men that uses their services. If it could be even more regulated it would be even better so that forcefull prostitution would have less more chance to establish itself in this world. How and what is another issue and that is a whole other story.
Luckily I didn't ask you then, isn't it. I am merely talking about the red light district & you haven't seen these women they usually have little choice in what they are doing..believe me they are not sleeping with these guys because they want to. Most of them are trying to further their educations and pay their way through university and this is the only way they can get that kind of money..by letting men use their body for sex. Do you think any women would willingly want to sleep with bald, aging old men? Believe me the answer is no. Fair enough men seek upon their services, that's great for them that they are able to do that and just have sex with someone knowing they are only doing it for the money. I could never be so unemotional when it comes to these kind of things. I know people who have come to Amsterdam and slept with a prozzie and it did shock me, so yes maybe I am a closed minded when it comes to this. It is a proper profession in Holland, with pimps and lady-pimps putting advertisements in the newspaper that they are looking for 'whores'. I just totally disagree with it. Yes, it's a job and it's in everyday society now but it's still frowned upon. You men would have no problem sleeping with a whore, but It would be a totally different story if you were to bring one home to meet your folks, yes I'm sure your parents would be thrilled to know you are dating someone who used to be/is a hooker. You have your opinion and I have mine.
Seriously, right on the money gworld. It would be cheaper to just pay a ho when the urge hits than to get married. That is until I got old. Hindsight is always 20/20 J
Every woman has a choice. They don't have to do it, they choose to do it. Anyone saying they have no choice, is simply making stupid excuses - it's comparable to saying drug dealers don't have a choice but to sell crack to kids, not because they like it, but because they have to Maybe all women aren't quite as shallow and superficial as you, and a persons personallity and character means more than their age and looks. It may be hypocritical of me to say this (because I do it to), but you should spend less time judging others and more time judging yourself
Ask? I really don't care, i'm just saying it by using a general form of expression. I know you are talking about the red light district and it really makes no difference wich location you are refering to. Of course they don't want to do it because of their own desires, it's all about the money and what purpose it holds once again makes no difference. If they are not forced by someone to do it then they stand there because of their own free will, education or whatever...they are just looking for the easy way. And others don't do it for their own education but just for the money and they like it! Not the sex (though there are that do like it believe it or not) but the money that's involved. By letting men use their body for sex you say? How many women use men for the money? Tons!! And they don't even stand behind a window. Therefor i don't understand your position to give a guy a evil and disgusted look as you say, it's just not called for and a sign of being narrow minded.