would you date someone who has a kid?

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  1. #1
    I'm 26 years old I started going out with this girl, and I found out she has kids.
    She's a very good girl, I noticed a lot of positive about her, but because she has kids I am having doubts.

    Do you think it's a good idea or bad any feedback is appreciated..
     
    shahab6, Jul 3, 2010 IP
  2. cool_78

    cool_78 Guest

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    Sure why not? as long as she is not in any current relationship.
     
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  3. mt33

    mt33 Well-Known Member

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    #3
    it doesn't matter that she has a kids or no !! affection and love are most important in relationship
     
    mt33, Jul 3, 2010 IP
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    lifeplayer Notable Member

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    #4
    It doesnt matter whether she has kid or not if she is really a good girl
     
    lifeplayer, Jul 3, 2010 IP
  5. shahab6

    shahab6 Well-Known Member

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    #5
    yes you are right, I guess it doesn't matter.

    but I really wish she didn't..very good person she is.
     
    shahab6, Jul 3, 2010 IP
  6. lifeplayer

    lifeplayer Notable Member

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    #6
    Wish you have a good date
    Cheer
     
    lifeplayer, Jul 3, 2010 IP
  7. Achiever

    Achiever Well-Known Member

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    #7
    I think that it is too good to say this.
     
    Achiever, Jul 4, 2010 IP
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    sweatlana Well-Known Member

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    #8
    If she likes you then dose not matter that she has kids or not.
     
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  9. pointwork

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    #9
    No i wont , i wont like to date a kid and wont like to play with her innocence we should be mature enough to date
     
    pointwork, Jul 4, 2010 IP
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    #10
    No problem..
    If you love her, then you love her kids too.
     
    minasiin, Jul 4, 2010 IP
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    It depends on the person. But that's a turn off for me though. LOL
     
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    dairyman Notable Member

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    #12
    It doesn't matter whether she has kids or not, as long as she truly loves you. You should be in a position to reciprocate it.
     
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    matthewrobertbell Peon

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    #13
    Are you willing to take on the responsibility?
     
    matthewrobertbell, Jul 5, 2010 IP
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    #14
    Are u having kids? If not, don't worry! Otherwise think twice before continuing your date.
     
    kittyluver, Jul 5, 2010 IP
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    #15
    you forgot about trust also that is key
     
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    real_skinner Notable Member

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    #16
    And why not? I think it's really ok. I used to date my former teacher before in college and she already had a kid too. But first it's kind a different but once you started it, it doesn't matter anymore.

    Goodluck Dude...
     
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    #17
    Ask her first if he had husband.
    Do you still want to marry her if she had child?
     
    petr_ind, Jul 5, 2010 IP
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    #18
    First, if I was interested than yes, I would.

    That being said, dating anyone with kids is pretty tough. The needs of the kids always come first. I guess you have to decide if yuo can handle the added responsibility.
     
    shakingspear, Jul 5, 2010 IP
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    #19
    If you don't want kids man then don't marry her. There will be problems down the road, and remember you are not her kids real daddy and you never will be. I waited till I was 47 till I found a woman without kids and didn't regret it.
     
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    #20
    It doesn't matter especially if she's one hot mom! :)
     
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