Will you stop friendship if your friends launch their own forum?

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by glitto, Sep 14, 2008.

  1. #1
    I had many good friends on different forums, I used to post on their forums very much and they used to be good and friendly with me.

    But as soon as I launched my own forum (available in my sig) they just stopped talking to me as they used to do :(

    Some of them are not even replying to my PMs.

    I am not trying to kill their forums at all, I am just running my own small place... even I am trying to run a forum because it has very few members and their forums are giant forums but still their behavior is getting changed because now they are treating me as a competitor? :(

    It should not be like that.

    Feeling very sad at the moment.
     
    glitto, Sep 14, 2008 IP
  2. Proximity

    Proximity Banned

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    #2
    I am not sure if they were your friends in the first place :eek:
     
    Proximity, Sep 14, 2008 IP
  3. GUESTID

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    #3
    Its business
     
    GUESTID, Sep 14, 2008 IP
  4. inggbt

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    Nope. i will not
     
    inggbt, Sep 14, 2008 IP
  5. LinkLoverSEO

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    #5
    Well glitto, That we are friends like you and that guys, I would never be angry on you. In fact, I would help you with your forum and show you that I`m good friend. Really don`t understand guys like that...

    - LinkLoverSEO :)
     
    LinkLoverSEO, Sep 14, 2008 IP
  6. Tesseract

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    #6
    I don't think I would stop talking to my 2 friends who run forums/websites if they started a competing site (hell maybe we should work together for some cross-marketing!).

    One I discuss all the time about new website ideas and niche markets, he gives me a sobering second option and stops me from spending money where I shouldn't.

    The other is very quite about his internet dealings and how he is doing (I've been able to infer that he is doing well, but no specific numbers).

    But why would I stop talking to them if they got more success than I? It seems petty.

    Thats just my $0.02 worth.
     
    Tesseract, Sep 14, 2008 IP
  7. aspire

    aspire Well-Known Member

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    #7
    People should be professional. There's nothing wrong if you start your own forums.
     
    aspire, Sep 14, 2008 IP
  8. serialCoder

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    lol, its actually funny, if that's the case, then they're not your friends to begin with, they are just nice to you because you're a poster in their forum
     
    serialCoder, Sep 14, 2008 IP
  9. ambitic

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    #9
    I agree with Proximity, they likely weren't real friends to begin with

    fusionxls78
     
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  10. surfaddict

    surfaddict Active Member

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    Dude, if they really care about that small competition among friend..they're nothing except some silent rival from the early stage..keep your life as usual, and prove that you're doing what you're enjoy much.
     
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  11. Abhik

    Abhik ..:: The ONE ::..

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    You got it dude..
     
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  12. rockinfuture

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    Their behavior is awful. And you predicted correctly. Now they think that you are their competitor. These kind of people have weird mentality. I dont know what they think before doing such things.
     
    rockinfuture, Sep 14, 2008 IP