I will always try and help others even though im in trouble, im actually pretty pleased at how i turned out i never had those father and son chats when i was little i dont know whether it was because he couldnt be bothered or anything but i had to learn eveything by myself and i always put people before me. It feels good when you help someone out i get a warm feeling inside
yeah i always help but im not a martyr i can only do so much and my trouble comes first. i wont help people who dont help back though simple.
You mean financially? If Im in trouble financially I can't really lend money to anyone unless its two digits or less.
I always try to help people when I can;however, I try to stay out of the situation of financially helping people (unless true desperation) I try not to mix business with personal (Neither a borrower nor lender be) when it comes to family and friends.
of course, i think your charity would be rewarded. and when you help others, you will be happy than the people you helped. i am proud of myself when do some help to others but it is seems that more and more people begin cheating other kind people by some accident ... i hate the fake pities
I always like to help the people who are in trouble (Exceptions = Rich people), but before helping those I makes sure that my problems will not become worse for me.
My whole life I put people in front of me since I was a young teen. One thing I learned, there not many people out there who would return the favor when you are in need of it, so choose carefully who you help. People often said, your true friends are who you are still with after college, but the truth is you know who they are when they earn more money then you. When they no longer need you, some you will never hear from again, the ones who still sticks around, chances are they not going anywhere. I will still put others in front of me, but only "certain" ones. Just choose carefully.
It depends on who needs help And then it shouldn't affect myself in any way i analyze whether that only, i can help him or anyother possibility. But generally i help others, but sometimes i hurt directly.. everything depends on the person that he/she is worth for that help