I dont have one. I always thought I would know in my heart of hearts if someone was a perfect match for me but usually I just feel like someone is a 17% or a 46% or a 76% match. I never feel that total UNION. It makes me wonder if it actually exists. I've felt it before but usually not for a long period of time, like it's something to slip in and out of. I want to know if it's something that can be felt for longer, or if I'm just fooling myself and not being happy with a good thing because I think that there's something out there that's better. The whole grass is greener thing......