There are so many aspects that can drive someone to suicide, it's hard to pinpoint one thing that would be the same in each individual person.
They say alot of people contemplate suicide at one time or another. They no longer have the inner energy to deal with the problems in their life. We are here for such a short period of time anyway so its not the thing to do. I've had my ups and downs in life along with everyone else. Things can change rapidly. Just when you think there is no light at the end of the tunnel, someone will turn the floodlights on. Just having your health is a big bonus. The human mind is an amazing complex organism. Just think of what mankind (or is that womankind) will be up to in another decade? We now live in the age of information. Some experts predict that one day there will be no need for money. Would that not be something? Enjoy what you do have and don't worry about what you don't have. Alot of rich people are not happy. If you do become rich, its more enjoyable to give than receive anyway. Just telling a joke to make people laugh, well that's priceless. I get a laugh every morning when I look in the mirror.
I don't know why certain people try to kill themselves. It is unfortunate. I know fellow officers who kill themselves because of their job, life style, etc...they are all missed, we all are angry and sad when they do it as most of them don't let you know that they are at the end of the rope.
I had a friend who committed suicide when we were in high school. In his case I think it was actually a cryout for attention.
I do not actually mean, those people who have multiple psychological disorders, and the suicide bombers. They are sure, of abnormal conditions. leave them. What I mean, is The people, who have succeded in the live, saturated in all the way... achieved, many obstacles, long the way., are suddenly got end their lives. Why this happen?.. they have money(no poverty as they once had!) Fame... popularity.. etc. This hurt me. Is the present(their)society neglected them?, or the people around them caused, mentally unhappy.? may not be a big cause, may be a pin point. Thank you people. for all the satires, shares, suggestions. a lot.
i believe the person is facing such a mental trauma set on by one or many triggers that are left feeling so helpless that can find the ability to get proper help and take the only option that they think will fix things easily for me its either guilt / shame, mental illness or scarred by traumatic events but they never think of the people they leave behind and the effect on them - its a selfish act You need to find away to get thru to them by putting things in perspective and telling them there is a solution for every problem or seek professional help who can deal with it sometimes they dont receive the medical attention that they need in time to help them or hide their problems and it gets too bad without someone realising there is always more than one option to choose
I thought about it when I was a teenager. I would never do that now. I could never leave my daughter without a father. That would be very selfish.
so according to your logic i suppose a man should never cry too bcos its weak shows a real lack of education and awareness on your behalf you cant judge people with knowing their circumstances mental illness or crisis is not a sign of weakness - many people dont ask to feel the way they do or be affected by traumatic events........ finding away to get help or the right help is not as easy as it seems its that sort of narrow minded attitude that makes these people feel bad about themselves and worry about what other people will think if others know whats happening to them its 2009 buddy not the 1960's and 70's this sort of social stigma does not help anyone
smooth and awesome,reply. U bro., for your daughter, But me, for my eight!!, eight organs. one shall living for one's own self, is meaning less, and selfishness but a little broader, for the kids, not to leave them orphans... and more broader, living for many dependents, who are ill fated.. is life. When I had met a severe accident, I thought my life was end,tried to kill my self, but leaving the kids in... in the endless sorrow, future less. But they kept me alive....hopeful..the bondage helped me to overcome, and father for another 23 alike. Thanks a lot for the compact, and nice post.