Why does this hurt so bad?

Friday night... I get picked up by my friend, and we pick up my ex... we go to Hanna Haunted Acres, and we all laugh at eachother when we get scared... me and my ex had been talking about getting back together for months. We go into a Haunted House together, and we hold onto each other, everything is perfect. I get my friend to drop me off at his house. Mind you, my dad hates this boy because he took my virginity last year. So, we went to his place, and, well, you can guess what happened. By the time I got home, I was so busted. Dad called his step-dad and cursed him out, they threatened each other, and I was terrified... but i still thought it was worth it... I love him.
This Morning... I go up to him, and his effing ex is standing next to him. He pulls me aside, and tells me his step-dad says that we cant see eachother. Now after all that I effing went through for him... it's all a lost cause? I even got my mom to let him come over.. dang this sucks. I don't know WHAT TO DO. I LOVE HIM TO DEATH.
my heart is lying on the floor...

 

I think if he really liked you he wouldn't use the excuse of his step-dad saying he can't see you.

 

you ll definately get him back,dont worry

 

i do still have hope, but its stiffled because im afraid that if i get my hopes up.. it'll be futile.

 

~ Not sure what the line above links to?

~ Agree with Serpico as a rather lame response, as your dad has the same opinion to your disregard. Some how need to play it out to balance your love to what may be a situation you are being taken advantage of....good luck.

 

This is because Love is always gives pain to lovers and take test to check your love is true or not or you doing only time pass but don't worry if your love is true you ll definitely get him back.

 

im about to see him with a few friends in about 20 mins.. i dont know what to say or do-- i sit right next to him..

 

Don't sit right next to him?

Your ex boyfriend is play hardball, don't take it. You might feel like he is your world, but if he isn't willing to put in the 50% it takes to make a relationship work, then you shouldn't either. It's all about sacrificing, and if he was with his ex gf the day after he was with you, then obviously he's not sacrificing anything, is he?

Seems to me like he wants to have his cake and eat it too.

 

Yes ofcourse god is testing u,if there is no pain than there is not enjoyment in love.

 

How does your ex feel about all of this? I hope for your sake he feels the same about you as you do him, but what is his take on the step dad?

 

i want to give up and throw it all away... but im in love with this boy. he argues that he doesnt know what he can do and that his step dad would be hella mad, but ive gone through hell for him just to prove how much i want to be with him...
i guess if you love it set it free, and if he doesnt come back.. maybe it just wasnt meant to be. god forbid..

 

love your parents and take care of them.. if he leaves you jus leave him too.. throw him out of your life,, your life is important..

 

he IS my life.

 

~ Very good advice if you can follow it....Nothing wrong with working it out becoming all the wiser for the future - nothing worse than fantasizing than seeing at least in the end.

 

:'( i hate feeling this vulnerable. i just dont know what to say or do around him... i guess im just gonna try to avoid being around him, as much as i can anyways. this is so hard... & to make it better, im not the best at coping with shiz like this. i got trashed last night... god he makes me crazy.

 

I feel sorry for you. You gave the guy the one thing he should have to dedicate himself to you for. He got what he wanted and the rest isn't worth it when others don't have dad's who care about where their daughter is. Your dad is being a good dad by not wanting you around a boy that doesn't love you enough to even respect you.

Sorry if I sound harsh, but obviously you are young. I know that the belief taught these days is that it is ok for young adults to have sex, but girls are being used by guys in this ploy. If I guy values you enough to love you without having sex, go after that one.

My advise as a dad - take it or leave it, I can back it up with life experience and a wife that I respect and love.

 

I once ran away with this guy once coz I loved him so much & everyone I knew was just so against him. That didn't end well.

But anyway, if he says he wants to fight for you, let him. If he though has given up & would rather just stay away from you like a little chicken, it's best you stay away from him too. He obviously doesn't care as much as you do for him.

 

Is it still beating?

 

I think you are a little bit young

 

aw.. this is so sad. 6 billion in the world and all you need is one and you can't get it.