Who do you think is more possessive?

When it comes to a relationship, who do you think is more possessive for other a man or a woman?

 

Although I am not possesive, shamefully I have to say the man. When it comes to women most men are a bunch of wimpering babies, no matter how strong they are otherwise.

 

QFT. This man said everything I would've just said.

 

Either, I don't think it depends on your sex, possesive people are possesive people, it doesn't come down to their gender.

 

both people being possessive can make a fun relationship

 

I would comment that possessiveness is weakness. If a person doesn’t have enough confidence he or she start projecting the diffidence on others. I think that possessiveness is a form of defending an ego. It take a lot to understand and then accept that other person is unique too, and has rights to be free but in trusting relationships.

 

Yeah no doubt possessivenss can be a human nature too and it's need not to depend upon your sex, but what i wanted to know is that when it comes to a relationship between a man and woman then who is more possessive a man or a woman?

 

I think men would be more possessive. I can say so because I am more possessive than my girl.

 

When you are in love, possessiveness is essential. If you are comparing genders, in my opinion Men are more possessive and i think its natural phenomenon. Every person has his/her own method of justification, but being a Man, i would say Men are more possessive than girls

 

Coolweb is right, possessiveness is very much essential in love but upto limit.

 

geldirectory and coolweb, may i know why possessiveness is very much essential in love? I think it is inborn feeling for your beloved and it shouldnt be essential.

 

Yes agree, essential things r those which are inborn you can't deny their importance and hence those r part of yr personality, as Love is relation of 2 souls, possessiveness is on its acme when you are in love

 

I will edit my line "I think it is inborn feeling for your beloved but it shouldnt be essential."

It is not necessary that inborn things should be essential sometime they can be worst for you.Yah right we cant deny their importance.Seems your possessiveness for your gal is at its extreme

 

It really depends on the guy I think. If you let your woman control you, obviously the woman would be more possessive. For instance, and I have had women tell this to me before, they will only date guys that they can control. Usually the smaller guys.... I just know so many guys that were party animals in the past, as soon as they got wrapped up in a certain chick they liked, that chick would control him and not let him go out anymore. I've seen it a lot. The word "tool" comes to mind for these kind of people.