where do i go from here?

Ok well since december i have had my car stolen,lost my job due to not having a car to get there in,and have a baby thats growing faster then a wildfire in california. i started 2 websites not lonf before this all happened and installed adsense thinking this will give me something to do in my spare time.


well it went from-lets see if i can make a few bucks doing this.
to-holy crap if i dont make some money with this im screwed.
so far i have only made around 5 bux.Soooo heres my question.would anybody be willing to check my sites out and give me some tips on what i should dr would anyone be kind enough to take me under there wing and show me the tricks of the trade.i wanna do this legally and not violate any TOS.so please if you could find it in your hearts let me know.dont be afraid to hurt my feelings with constructive criticism.i gotta do something.....
these are the sites stonedferret.com and sexdado.com
thank you
kenny

 

Get traffic without traffic you don't make $$$$

Have you tryed to get another job ?

 

or you could just post begging letters on forums!

 

ok without violating tos in your opinion what would be my best route to getting more traffic,right now im only averaging about 100 impressions daily.
yes i am trying to get a job but right now so are a lot of other people in my area.on top of that im limited to jobs that i can either walk to or ride a bike,plus i gotta work around my girlfriends schedule because we cant afford a babysitter so one of us always has to be at home.im losing my friggin mind here.sorry for venting this just hasnt been a very good year for me so far

 

if you feel that im begging delete this thread.im not asking for handouts i just dont know what else to do so i came here for advice

 

i never said that mate

 

ive been looking around these forums and have got some good tips!what do you guys think about buying traffic while using adsense?

 

Only buy traffic if it adsense friendly, otherwise your adsense account will be banned. Do you have any computer skills? Designing, article writing, forum posting etc?

 

what traffic could i use besides adwords?as far as skills i do pc repair on the side,im trying to better my web design skills.as far as writing and forum posting,check and check!are you getting at i should post blogs on my site?it would be tough for me to do a blog on my sexdado.com site because of the content there.the stonedferret.com will be much easier to blog.i also set up forums @ stonedferret.com/forums but havnt linked them to the main site yet.

 

As for now try to get another job if possible and if not, try B/S/T and freelance sites. + that do that sites.

 

You've said that you're already doing some writing on the side... try taking that seriously. While it's undeniable that just about anybody can't be a writer, you can make good money writing considering you're a native English speaker (I think).

This, of course, requires that you whore yourself at $0.01/word or less at first but over time, you'll be able to churn out 3-4 articles per hour and you'll even get paid more as your progress. On the BST sections here and on many other websites, people are constantly looking for article writers. They don't give a shit about quality; all they want is grammatically coherent content for SEO purposes. While staying home to take care of your child, you could do some writing too and make money off of it.

I definitely wouldn't recommend this route to anyone but you seem to be quite desperate and this should be a viable short-term solution for you.

Cheers

 

thanks for all your replies!im gonna go check out the bst forums and see what i can make happen.i truly appreciate all of your insight.