Hi, I need some suggestions about this situation. Please feel free to let me know, help, help.................... The situation is: the girl wanted to talk about the situation in their relationship with her boyfriend, but the guy can' make it because he was too tired in the sunday -- drunk. So he sent her message at 12am monday, let her knows - don't wait, go to bed, talk to tomorrow(monday). So the girl got mad, went to his apt, for some reasons, this couple who got in a fight that called cop, broke table, beat each other up lightly -- not the beat up you think. At the end, the girl left before the cop came in, because the guy said:"you are out of my life." After two days, the girl said sorry for all the troubles she made, because she thought at some part, she did wrong. But now, the guy said, whatever happened at that night, made him feels to think before to call her, to do something with her, because he doesn't want that happen again. And he needs take at least 7 days off and talks to her again after 7 days. So what you guys (boys and girls) will do? If you are guy, will you talk to her again? If you are girl, what you will do?
Well, that is a problem that not easy to solve. But will you talk to that girl/gf after 7 days? or wait for her to talk to him first? What you will do?
In this matter, both should just sit down NOW not after 7 days and talk about it. I guess the guy have to make a move first because the girl called and said sorry first. She must be waiting for the guy to approach her, forget and forgive about whatever happened and be back together again. For the guy, he should think more about the girlfriend's need and feelings. She might had something very important to talk. If the guy can't even do that, then why get into a relationship. Relationship is built around love and responsibility. Only one of it is not good enough to be honest. I have been with my fiancee for the past 5 years and still have 2 years to go before we marry. In the 5 years we went through a lot of shit and beautiful days but in the end, both of us care about each another and understands the feelings and needs very well. It is more to give and take. The girl should be patient and if it was something very important, she should tell that directly to the guy that "IT IS IMPORTANT". If nothing important, she shouldn't do that. I hope this helps. No matter you are the guy or girl, both are at fault in this. Solve it fast (not 7 days) and get back together. Love is a gift from God.
Thanks for the suggestion. However, it is been 5 days already, no phone call, no nothing from each other. I believe this girl is mad about what he said:" I have to think before to call you and do thing with you, because i don't want something like sunday night." But he doesn't understand whatever happened on sunday night, he offered to has talk about their relationship, and it was him to cancel in the last minute in sunday night (12AM). That seems to me, he doesn't really care about the talk at all. And now, thing happened in worse way, he said that was this girl false. I don't think she wants to go back to him. If he does call her first, she may still has to think about it, and keep distance between him. He thought she can't leave him, always there for him(in the past) but things changed so much recently. Whatever he did, showed that, he doesn't really care about her, and the relationship.
I experience that kind of situation but the only thing is she is not my wife she is only my girlfriend at that time we fight that time she trows of my phone into my face so O got angry and kick her off I think I kick her for about 4 times so she left my house crying. But next morning she came up to me and say sorry and accepted her we were just a student at that time, and then one day I had a big school project and when it is not finish in the given deadline I will not graduate so I was worried at that time but the only person who supported me is my girlfriend she did my project and she did not sleep for a night just to finish it. And these days when I think of the things that I did to her and she did for me I felt that my heart was breaking into pieces and I want to cry, so these days I am doing all the things that will make her feel that she is very special to me.