What would you do?

if you liked a girl in your college, you see here around, talk with each other sometimes. but you figured out that you don't just like her but you truly love her.

what would you do?

for me I don't think I have enough courage to tell her

 

I'd man up and tell her.

The benefits to risk ratio is just too high to not tell her.

 

good point !

 

Nobody can tell you what to do. Act like your heart is asking to.

 

can't you tell if she's interested or not?

 

I would personally forget about it... even if you did manage to get her to go on a date with you chances are it is going to slip that you love her WAAAAAAAAAY to early and she will be spooked out and you will hurt more than if you just tried to forget about her altogether. Also, moving forward, next time you start liking a girl askher out then instead waiting until you fall in love with her... if you fell in love with this one really quickly and didn;t have a chance to go out on a date before falling in love than you my friend are not in love just have a really bad crush.

 

I agree with some of this so I should clarify what I meant by post. I wouldn't come right out and say I love you, as drmike is right, it would probably creep her out a bit. What I would do is ask her out on a date. This lets her know that you'd like to take the relationship in that direction.

If she says she just wants to be friends, then thats fine. A couple days of awkwardness and everything will be back to how it always has been - you'll have lost nothing. If she says yes, then you've got a shot at some day being able to tell her you love her.

 

Tell her you love her , how much you love her .. there is no 2nd solution

 

better not tell her you love her too soon, thats my only advice...

 

wondering if we have to talk about it in the webmasters forum....

 

will tell her the next moment i know that i love her!

 

Life is too short take the leap and tell her you never know what the response would be

 

I just express my feelings to her. if she too loves me thats fine other wise i will never disturb her in my life.

 

Webmasters have families... They make love.. Produce kids, eat, drink sleep....

In short, they are human too.

I don't think this is going to happen to me... may be not... not sure!

 

hey guys, you didn't understand the purpose of my post.. I meant to ask generally not for my case. the question was "what would YOU do?
anyway I found some really good answers

 

Aye man up or some other guy will be boning her shortly.

And are you sure its love and not just infatuation.

 

You've gotta give it a go, but get to know her before you get all lovey.

 

Well exactly, I am facing same problems where I have no courage to tell her I love you or not want to make delay. I want to her I love you as soon as I can.

 

Hey, have some guts guys, don't fear of consequences. She is not gonna kill you. May be you can get lucky and the girl says yes to you.

 

i would say spend more time with her..then proceed...ut first be sure about your feelings