What will you do if you find your wife/husband cheat on you?

I will do that for you.

What will I do or say?
Well it might sound unrealistic to others. I will try to forgive him as much as possible and I won't do anything that will hurt him in any way but he must not expect anything from his family. He will change his address (start sleeping on streets)

 

i like your answer Angelfire...
i might as well do the same...

i will forgive him. treat him as if nothing happened or even love him more....
i will let him feel the lifetime guilt.

 

I have had it happen with my fiancee. I broke up with her that day and have not got back together. Its the only way.

 

I would ask her (and her lover) to leave my house and never to come back again.

 

I agree. I don't see how you can ever go back to having a normal relationship after one of you cheats and gets caught. The trust you have built up is completely gone and you'll never fully get it back. The relationship is tainted.

IMO people that cheat on their partners are scum. If you love someone..hell even if you just respect someone... you would not do that to them.

 

I think so, it just doesn't make for good gossip, so you don't hear too much about the happy marriages where none of the 2 cheats ...

 

may i ask what will you do if you get caught by your husband on the act of cheating him?

 

For me cheating husband or wife is unforgivable.... they are considered as traitor...

 

You won't do things like that if you knew you can be caught and if ever I will do that to my husband (which I won't) I'll face the consequences and ask forgiveness.

if God can forgive you why can't you do the same.

 

hmmm.. ill let him read your post. lol

 

God can forgive if you really ask for forgiveness and make a new path of life away from your past sinful life.

For us, why do such thing if that would be the cause of trouble?

 

Cheating is not a good thing and will never be for the people being cheated and others but for those people who are doing this, they have reasons that others might or will never understand. Sooner or later they will have to face it and its consequences. They will learn from it, unfortunately they will learn from it the hard way.

 

This thread reminds me of the song " Why Do We Always Hurt The Ones We Love" by Dan Hill.

 

I will maybe give him a chance but she should promise he will not meet the girl.It happends to us already when we were not married yet and I was in the Philippines and he is here in states.Him and his ex-wife they live together and they same bed,and that time I always wants him to talk to me online cause i missed him so much but he could meet cause he said he is busy then later his ex told me they are living together I was really hurt that time.But i have forgiven him cause i cheated on him once too so i think it is just fair what i did to him.
But now if they are still doing thesame thing what they did to me tho he is with me now but they are still meeting and I wonder why they are still meeting but he said he is just helping her since the girl lives in his another house.I think I will just leave him and no words at all and hope they will be happy forever...

 

Kill the guy and lock my wife in the cella

 

Wow life story ... thanks for that

So technically your his 'bit on the side' or he's so called 'Bitch'? Lol.

 

haha, I don't know but i think i will just leave them both maybe one day i will find the right person that wont cheat on me cause i am really not a cheater i just felt he does not love me and that's why i cheated on him to but the fact that they live in thesame house and share beds is not good when you are engaged...

 

hmm... i will let her go.. and said "do whatever you want".. and tried to thought that whole blame is mine because i am not able to give you that amount of love so instead of me you preferred someone else ... whole mistake is mine.
Sorry for that