What will you do if you find your wife/husband cheat on you?

I'd say this:



(best south park episode ever)

 

I would be happy if i found my GF with a lesbian friend, ofcourse i would prefer my GF is bi and not lesbian.

 

How could you be happy about that? Either way, its quite a big betrayal of trust - if nothing else - might feel different 2 or 3 years later, but immediately. That'd suck. The feelings of inadequacy washing over you. Ick.

 

Like Borat would say " If you become my wife and come to kazakhstan, Ill give you moneeyyy, remote control.... BUT IF YOU CHEAT ON ME ILL CRUSH YOU!"

 

Ill Super Glue the guys d*ck on her mouth or Blow them to pices !

 

the fact that they will have to live with the guilt of it is enough punishment for me. oh ya, and not having me around anymore

 

If she cheated one night as a one off I could forgive it in the blink of an eye. We are all human and make mistakes. If she had an afair then It would be tougher not because of the sex etc, but because of the controlled deceipt.

I love my wife, and neither she nor I would cheat. I did it a long time ago, within the first 3 months of us getting together. I kept it a secret for many years, then told her. I couldn't live a lie. She forgave me, it was painful, but we moved on, and are stronger for it. I would NEVER risk the love I have now.

If you truly love someone, then you can forgive, but ONLY if the love is strong enough, and you can put it behind you. Often times, I feel guilty, like now as I type this and once again have to look inward at myself and admit my weakness then, and how I hurt such a beautiful woman who did not deserve it. But love DOES conquer all.

We have a 6 year old daughter, and this is 13 years behind us, I still feel the pain of hurting her though, and have tears in my eyes now as I type. We are so amizingly happy together, and I can think of nothing I want in life to make me happier, other than my wife and daughters hapiness.

Shit I am getting soft in the head LOL

 

dont worry, your wife is very lucky to have you!!!

but what will you do if you find out that she cheated you second time around? hahaha...

 

i'll let them do what they want!
i'll do mine!

 

Well, i was just thinking the fun part and a slight possibility of threesome.

Well, on a serious not, my GF loves me a lot and she would not cheat on me for anything. She stood by me at a very difficult stage of my life and she will stand by me for rest of my life.

 

youll do what?

interesting....

 

lol very interesting

 

I love your posts.

 

Me too... hehehehe... sure threesome...

 

Good idea, but it is better to do this:
Tie their hands with rope at the rear bumper of your car then get in to the car and drive... it is better to make a 100 KM/H speed..
They must feel the pain


lol

 

It seems that guys always have that threesome fantacy. My significant other told me he even dreamed of it. But sorry, it's going to stay a dream for him.

I'd forgive a physical slip, but emotional attachment would be much harder to forgive. I am much more unforgiving than he has been with me.

Still working on that personal flaw.

 

I think that once can be enough to lose trust completely. How do you know that whatever caused the "slip", is no longer an issue. The problem is not just the act of cheating, but knowign that your partner had the desire to do so ...

 

although you can't be happy if you really love your partner. if there's a reason for your partner to cheat, then there's something wrong with you.
maybe you could go to a bar and be happy if your partner is just a big burden for you. at last you're free from hell!

 

lol... all men are born polygamous... love makes you controll.