What should I do ?

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by wyuguy, Sep 10, 2007.

  1. #1
    What should I do when the girl I love have boyfriend already ?

    I know the relationship between the girl and her BF is very solid.

    I feel so bad :(

    Anyone have the same sad experience of can't be with the person you love ?
     
    wyuguy, Sep 10, 2007 IP
  2. Spark

    Spark Banned

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    oh,i know it is painful,but you have to give her up,overcome it.forget her,jusr forget her.
     
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  3. usmcpv

    usmcpv Peon

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    #3
    Tell her you think of her as more than a friend and you think it would be best to stay apart from now on, or just leave her alone. She might return the love or agree.
     
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    ForgottenCreature Notable Member

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    Tell her how you feel and hope that she feels the same.
     
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  5. seasix

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    I think this is the best plan, this way she knows and if the time is right she will tell you. She probably knows now, most women can pick up on the vibe you send.
     
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  6. Kerosene

    Kerosene Alpha & Omega™ Staff

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    #6
    Tell her you saw her boyfriend kissing some other guy.
     
    Kerosene, Sep 10, 2007 IP
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    It maybe hard for you but it is best to let her go. If it is ment to be then its ment to be.
     
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  8. davewashere

    davewashere Active Member

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    Bingo. That one never fails. Also plant some gay stuff on her bf's computer and among his personal belongings.
     
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  9. Im The ONE

    Im The ONE Peon

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    lol thats lame
    wyuguy:
    try to forget her, she already has her man. She might care for you if she feels you are a better person (internally and externally)
     
    Im The ONE, Sep 10, 2007 IP
  10. Kerosene

    Kerosene Alpha & Omega™ Staff

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    #10
    It's kinda like asking for relationship advice on a forum :rolleyes:

    Better still, tell her you're bi, and that her boyfriend tried to kiss you.
     
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  11. drmike

    drmike Well-Known Member

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    Chances are atleast one of her boyfriends male friends hates her.... you need to find this guy and pay him to set his buddy up and get caught getting a lap dance or making out with another chick.... then you can tell her, and be there for her, and then become her new boyfriend.

    Or if you dont want to be totally evil, I agree... just tell her how you and and say that it is too difficult to just be friends, but you respect her relationship and think you need to stop talking, but to look you up if things ever go south in her relationship.
     
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  12. Kerosene

    Kerosene Alpha & Omega™ Staff

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    Just go home and post about it on the internet :p
     
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  13. Pauline

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    Then she's not worth your time. Find someone who loves you back.
     
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    Kill the boyfriend, duh.
     
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    #15
    This sounds like something from about the 9th grade. My recommendation is to find another chick... it isn't real love. ;)
     
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  16. wyuguy

    wyuguy Peon

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    Thanks guys input.
    I don't intend to do some evil stuff to her BF.
    I had expressed my feeling to her,however she said she has BF.....
    May be just let her go is only way would do.........

    "If it is meant to be then its meant to be." Classic words !!!
     
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  17. flash902007

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    #17
    ive been in a similar situation before, but you should really try and get over her, and look for somebody who isnt already happily in a relationship. you will find somebody of your own just by being you. dont chase a partner who is off limits
     
    flash902007, Sep 10, 2007 IP