Reading around other forums i saw a verry interesting question: What makes the charm of a man is his kindness, but it's always like this? Why is the charm of human the kindness? I heard about this and want some advice, I do not agree with that ... but I want some arguments from others. My response it was: Kindness is expressed by a smile, a face serene and benevolent. Near good people you automatically feel more confident, more at ease in a comfortable word. The need for security is one of the major human needs. So who satisfies your needs is automatically more liked than someone who do not satisfy this need. A charming man in this case is a man liked by the others. What do u think about this guys?