What is it that you notice in a person when you meet them the "First" time

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by Kontent.solutions, May 20, 2008.

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    What do you observe in a person when you him/her the first time.

    Do you have a defined set of goods and / or bads, that you look answers for ?

    I look at their feet / shoes. They need to be clean, else its a huge turn off for me .. :(

    /G
     
    Kontent.solutions, May 20, 2008 IP
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    students-forum Well-Known Member

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    I should hope they're not bare foot! I don't really know myself. I suppose it is whatever comes most naturally.
     
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    The first thing that I probably noticed would be their face...
     
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    Well depends on who I am looking at :). If its a nice pretty gal then first thing offcourse the smile. And if thats not thr then its a big minus. Nice for that shoe tip , lol. Will have to keep it clean now :)
     
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    I want a person who wear a smile when we first meet. Well, I am turn off if i see dirty nails and started asking personal queries.
     
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    True turn offs :) ...

    /G
     
    Kontent.solutions, May 20, 2008 IP
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    Expressions on the face whether the person is nervous in meeting me or not.
     
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    yeap face is what i see the first second and then you look down to see her everything.
     
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    I read person's expression and their mind. Thats what I do and I also see how they are meeting with strangers because it reveals nature of a person...
     
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    i dont think i will notice anything if they are normal
     
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    Their face and if they have a good smile :)
     
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    the face and the clothes
     
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    Well, lets be honest... it's probably pretty superficial... clothes, looks, stature...

    "Don't underestimate no man, looks are deceiving!"
     
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    I don’t notice anything on purpose. If I feel something I will remember it.
     
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    Probably the scent. It is a scientific fact that the olfactory (smell) senses are closely linked to the part of the brain associated with memory. It's quite unusual, but that's how I get the first impressions of people when I meet them for the first time. It either leaves a good one when the person smells good, and a bad one if he/she smells awful.. :)
     
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    The first thing I notice is if they are natural.Phony contrived people turn me off immediatly.The second thing I notice is a spirit of kindness.People who have gentle caring souls radiate from within to their exteriors.People that I have just described are unfortunatly in short supply.Especially in the buisness world where it is dog eat dog.
     
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    first i notice dress style seeing their dress style and color mostly i judge their characters.....and then way of talking..
     
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    i will first notice their reaction and how they speak with me..
     
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    Dressing then talking style and then actions manners and smile.
    thanks
    -:suha
     
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    I always try to check how much intelligent the other person is, as it is quote "It is not enough to have a good mind; the main thing is to use it well"
     
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