I want to discuss and to know that what you guyz think and feel about those women who do bad things (nude photography and videos) There are thousands of websites with nude pictures and videos of women and we see them just for enjoyment, but have you ever thought that why those women are doing it? who took them to that stage where they have to put off their clothes and show their beauty? No one from us would like any of our family member or relative to go there and do the nude photography but we never feel such things for those who we are seeing on websites. I personally feel that those women must have some serious problem thats why they are there. May be some group of bad people have kidnapped them and forcing them to do it or may be those women have faced some bad experiences from the men in the real world thats why they don't want to live normally. If I had power or I was in Government I would try to stop all those women and let them live their lives as THEY want. We should respect them and should not always see them as bad woman. They also have a heart & feelings just like other women have and we should respect it. Once I talked to a call girl (may be she was a call girl in real or not) and I didn't talk with her about sex. She said she would talk about anything if I pay her but I tried to ask her and tried to make her understand that she should not do so. I said, "I will pay you whatever you want but just tell me the reason why are you doing so?" but she didn't talk me to for long and cut the call. Anyways. Now you please share your thoughts about the women you see on internet or in real life? do you think that the women doing bad things doesn't worth any respect, love or care? * This is a serious topic and I want some serious discussion so please be gentleman and share.
I don't think they are bad...necessarily. Kidnapped? Maybe they just want to make an easy buck doing something they enjoy. Honestly this forum seems to have been hijacked by adolescents with all kinds of wierd feelings about women or seem to have been sheltered from females and their sexuality. In fact there is way too much emphasis on women. Girls are just half the human race and people to me. Its really not all that complicated.
Umm. if the women is doing it without being forced and is enjoying doing it. Who are you do judge? do you pick your nose? Am i allowed to call you BAD becuase you pick your nose? Each to there own. If it doesn't effect your life and i'm sure you will never meet any of those women who do those kinds of photos. WHY worry about it. Sheese so many people are so concerned about what other people are doing. just mind your own damn business and the world would be a better place. HOWEVER if they are being forced to do it then yes it's VERY bad and i hope they get bused for doing. I can't stand 'Moral' police, mostly because behind closed doors they are just as twisted as the rest of us but they like to come off high and mighty to there friends!
I suspect that for some women, it's a way to make a WHOLE LOT of fast money. And as you know, money talks.
I'm soo glad you don't have the power then because hey what happens if the women are doing WHAT they want already by doing this? Are you going to FORCE your ideas on them? Wow great we have a dictator!
No, I am not trying to be the judge to decide what others should do or not. Also not trying to interfere in others business. I am just trying to say that "Did you ever think why they are doing so and did you think that you should stop them in doing it? I know everyone should think about his own life, but if we see something wrong should we close our eyes and think that let them do it? should we not try to give it atleast one chance to stop? Please don't get me wrong, I am just trying to share what you think. But you are thinking that I am interfering into others' business.
Selltrib, please try to understand what I am saying.. SEE what I wrote there. I Wrote that "I would try to stop all those women and let them live their lives as THEY want." I will not force them to live their lives as I want.. I said as THEY want... can't u see the big "THEY" there?
yes but what happens if THEY are already living there lives as THEY WANT? I know a few women who do this and are quite happy doing it! and they are even married. Great money too btw!
No. I don't mean it is stupid, forgive me if I come across that way. I'm a 42 year old male. I've known many women in my life and was raised by women, most of my close friends are women and I've had many sexual relationships, never wanted to get married. I'm neither proud of that or ashamed. It's just my life. I was raised by lesbians and reliogious fundamentalists. I had a history years ago of drug and alcohol use/abuse and so was around many women in the same life. I once even ran an escort (prostitution) service! 20 years ago. IOW I've had a varied experience. My life is not that way now. In fact I've not had a drink of alcohol in years. The reason I post that way is that I see so much emphasis on women. Example: they are mysteries, never argue with a woman, never hit a woman, how can i kiss one?, why do they do this why do they do that? how can i get one? women who pose nude are bad, women who have sex for money are bad. etc etc etc. I'm just like whats the big deal? If you can't get laid, drop a few bucks and grab a working girl and do the deed. No need to judge her, hate or think she is bad. You never walked in her shoes. And yes likely she may have problems but all the more reason to treat her well and send her on her way. And she has free will and its not my job to try and change a woman. That you can control another person male or female is an illusion 90% of the time. Same thing for women in general, I just don't find em that complicated or hard to deal with. When you wrote about your conversation with the prostitute not wanting to talk to you about her business, I just thought its none of your damn business! But after thinking I see you maybe have a genuine concern for women in bad situations. So that is good and I admire your heart. But I would not group these women as "bad" only God can judge us. Also many of us come from different cultures and languages so miscommunication likely to occur. Peace to you.
Dear, its not start from suddenly from the last week, as like you wondering.. go to library and check the histroy... ( we are enemies for our mankind's ) and for your answer, again read your thread and which part i bold you are giving your answer by yourself... bytheway, you don't need any help from government.. if you really would like to do help someone... ( truth is government cant be do anything, someway its business too )
OKAY BELOW IS MY OPINION: To be honest,i have no feeling with those women,i think as they are 18+,that is the age to be an adult in law in most countries,they can judge whatever they do,and they can choose whatever they want freely,so it just their business,if they do not like it or somebody forces them to do something they do not want,they can call the polices. SO EVERYBODY GET A METHOD TO SURVIVE,YOU GOT YOURS,AND I GOT MINE,AND THEY HAVE THEIR OWN,THIS IS CALLED LIFE,MATE. (I AM NOT SAYING THAT YOUR THREAD IS STUPID)
I think I can't convey my msg correctly to you guyz. You are thinking that I am talking about FORCING THOSE GIRLS TO DO WHAT I WANT... which is wrong. I am not talking about it. Anyways. I can't convey my thinking so please no more discussions. I was expecting something different but it went to the wrong direction. You do whatever you like. I am not going to force you. I am happy with my thinking and wishing everyone to be happy with their own thinking. Good luck to you all. I am off now. Thank you
Another thing is we put women on a pedestal...especially a sexual pedestal IMO. My mother, my grandmother, my sister, my fathers and grandfathers all get horney and had the same feelings I do. They liked it as much as I do. Some people don't like to think of grandma as that way but its a fact. And its a mistake to pretend they were all "pure". Its a mistake to think of sex as bad and dirty. I see women who think men are all bad, dirty and perverted cause they like sex. And I see men do the same thing.
It's a shame. The only type of women I can think that are "forced" into doing nude pics are kidnap victims and as we all know, there is a huge human trafficking problem. I do not doubt that a percentage of the photos you see online may be these types of photos. It is sick, it is sad, and I hope these girls one day get the help they need. These are the women you may be referring to and yes, they truly need help. Unfortunately, some countries enable this as an underground illegal money market and ignore it. It's even more sick that they allow it or simply turn a blind eye to it. I have some very close friends (women) who are into sex. TWalker is absolutely correct. Most women enjoy sex. We have orgasms, we feel pleasure, we are pleasured just as much as a man You seem to not understand this. Some women who do adult pics and other things are just erotic people who enjoy sex. This is fine in my culture for a woman to enjoy sex and have her own will as far as what she wants to do. I know there are many other cultures where a woman will get stoned or disowned or even worse for this behaviour. For example, in some African areas women get their "genitals mutilated" in other words, their tribal leaders cut off their clitoris so they can never have an orgasm or truly enjoy sex. They do this so the women will be more submissive, and much less likely to stray or cheat because sex is more of a chore with her husband than a pleasure. Sad sad. There are so many different cultures, situations, and different things all over the world. There is no way to know exactly what someone is doing. But as long as someone consents to what is going on and they are an adult, I feel that they should be able to do as they please. I agree with selltrib, what goes on behind closed doors is absolutely no one's business but their own. I usually can't stand nosy neighbors or busy bodies who think it is their business. I definitely do NOT hang around or associate with people like this. Anyway, relax more. Realize that 90 percent of the women you see consent to do the pictures or videos for one reason or another. Please accept the fact that many women enjoy sex (that includes casual) and do not see it as dirty or something to be ashamed of. The other 10 percent may fall into the sad category I referred to earlier as kidnap victims such as human trafficking sickos. These ladies need to get FOUND and HELPED. Sadly, a lot of the world ignores it :-(
There all doing it for money, if they werent they woudnt be there. Let live and be happy. I suppose it wont be long before fuc* off america bans this sort of advertising online as well as gambling !! The land of the free lmfao !!!!!
Bad?....ha! its in the eye of the beholder. I see those as the good ones! The only bad girls are lesbians, virgins and celibates! Like grandpa used to say: Every woman is sittin on a goldmine! if I was a woman there would be at least on rich F***** in this family!