If you already open the door to the problems, then it will be much difficult to close it... In my opinion, you don't have to let this things happen! The only way if you want be in good balance is if you start to practice ethics and morality. Normally, you should first start with ethics if you want to go on level 2 - morality. Most of the people have problem to pass ethics, because they have to start to build self-discipline. Self-discipline is definitely the first and most important step in you journey to yourself. Because, when you reach that goal in your life, I am sure that you will not gonna let things happens to you or even if they start randomly, you will know how to solve it!