I cuss and scream and turn the air blue, I throw and kick things and hope I don't break any windows. Be honest, isnt that what most of you do? anyway it sure helps to get it off your chest.
I am short tempered but still my high voltage anger becomes unstoppable when it comes. Usually I move away from the heated scene. Drink a glass of water and try to concentrate somewhere else...
Sometimes if my anger is really uncontrollable I really hit the other guy hard on face. LOL Guess what, my right hand is quite strong and so I am just able to take air out of the other guy with just one hard slap !! ahem
I usually just pace back and forth and try to keep from doing something stupid, but if I'm really mad I will just look at the other person with this really calm face.
I try to center myself. Remind myself to be in the moment. I try not to dwell on the issue that I am making myself angry about.