Haha, Rick trust me -- there are men that stupid. I'm speaking strictly from personal experience. There are only so many times you can hear about your ass, breasts, whatever... or be barked at (yes, I have actually been barked at, and I don't mean by a dog) before you get a little fed up with the male population in general
I dont know though Denise.. I once got a blonde stunner to come and talk to me by sticking my middle finger up at her... it's funny what will work on some women
Oh, I'd definitely walk up to a man who stuck their middle finger up at me... walk up to them and rip it off, that is.
"Some" women would go for anything. "Quality" women wouldn't have given you the time of day... unless of course she came to talk to you to chew you out for acting like an ass... which honestly could probably be effective if you knew how to turn it around.
You know what's odd. But I get a feeling that a man could love...I mean truely love a girl on one hand, and never have sex with her. But on the other side...a man could have sex with many women without the feeling of love or closeness. It's not like men are totally void of desiring both, but many times we take it a lot more differently than women. Love and sex are in two different spheres. It would be nice to have both, but most of us can have one without the other. Although there are many women that can do that too.
It worked because it was the complete opposite of what she had become used to (and bored of) most of her adult life.. obvious move to make really!
ha...Living where I live, I've had some rather unwelcomed comments/behaviours from men as well....they are lucky they're alive.
Hey maybe I'm wrong. *shrug* I just thought it presumptious, but perhaps I'm missing something. Ferret is a rather hard person to read, and I assume certain things, myself; but I try to give him the benefit of the doubt. I just think that generally if a girl is seeking emotional help from another man, it's not always that the boyfriend isn't there...perhaps the problem is the girl. If your dating someone, and you can't share your feeling with that person, then the issue are within yourself,....? You can't hide who you are or what you feel to someone you 'trust', yes? ehh, that's how I look at it.
The problem though is that most people arn't comfortable with who they are and so hide behind many facades. Unless you get the emotional connection that the girls are talking about here then you probably wont be able to get the person you are with to remove their masks and be who they truly are.
Maybe it's not that he's not there, but instead that he caused the problem that she's looking for emotional support for. I can't speak for all other women, but when I'm with a guy, and I'm upset, I expect him to be there. If he's not, I usually go to a female friend, b/c I hate playing games and dragging other men into things. But if he's usually the problem, or usually not there, he's gone, and that sweet friend-type would be more than welcome to take his place. Jumping to blame a woman for not talking to her SO is kind of silly, considering how it's often the result of them not listening or caring in the past (for both sexes).
whatever don't project your hang ups on me I have been in different types of relationships with different types of woman, I have dated everything from strippers to college professers I have had one night relationships and 4 year relationships all that matters in sex in honesty, worrying about what someone did in some old relationship is childish in my opinion
Here's my thing, chief. It's the most important thing in the world to me. Boundaries and trust. If you can't viable figure if a person is trustworthy or willing to be 'who they are to you' ie be on your team....then a relationship isn't possible. If a girl is my 'friendly' aquiantance, she's not welcome into my personal life. Often I make that decision based on what a woman's track-record relays to me. Is she worthy of my inner intimacy? What is she worthy of? I think that's where all these hollywood types go wrong. I have to have a secure place in my life, where what I say and do is held within that relation. I can't have some chick rambing about my personal life to every other person. That's when a bitch gets slapped. j/k. I guess I'm fairly blunt to that sort of shit when it goes down. If the girls a ship without holes, we're gold; but if she leaking everywhere, and I'll die if I get aboard...fuck that! Loose lips sing ships.