lol It's amazing how much a pathological liar can try to justify things. No matter how much rock-solid evidence you have that they're lying, they'll just keep going, even trying to act like it's some conspiracy. Because yes... the world is out conspiring against them and framing them as a cheater just to break up their relationships. In a detached way, it's almost funny.
Whatever makes you think I actually believe in what I say !? I m just enjoying a debate. You take a side, you stick to it. Thats how debates are supposed to be. Now, If i was such big a liar that you think I am, then I would have lied to make all of you happy, wouldnt I ? I cud very well take your side, and justify all the things you say, honesty, integrety etc etc ... and you would think of me as a nice guy.... but it wouldnt be as much fun then wud it !! Think about it Time to go to sleep. Had an interesting debate. See u around !!
Well, in all debates I've ever been involved with, the side I pick is the side I actually BELIEVE in. You're sort of proving the assumption that you're a liar, Kartik, by implying that you lied about this whole entire thing to begin with Whatever, it's all gravy to me.
I always like to be on the controvertial side, anyone can justify what is implicit. Fun part is to get the good guys at their wits end.
Do you know those "magic headaches" women suddenly can get? kartik, you're a prime example of why. j/k No matter what your actual beliefs are, you can't escape being a liar. Either you're as much of one as you say, or you lied in saying it. But yes, it's been obvious you've been trying to get a rise out of us. If that weren't obvious to a degree, you'd have probably been attacked much worse. I think we were quite civil... if you'd have said some of those things to my face, it may have been a different story. But yes, debates are fun. I've only once had to debate (formally) something I didn't believe in (against animal rights), b/c it was an assigned position. I did a lot of first hand research and even visited a testing facility, and ended up more educated and aware of the truth and lies and exaggerations on the side I actually believed in... it's amazing what you can learn if you open to the possibility. I'm not saying a moral position changes... but a factual one did. And Denise, I thought of one more "requirement" in addition to honesty, loyalty, and respect... height. lol Why the heck is it so hard to find tall men? (not that I'm entirely that fickle... it would just be nice to not have to look down at one in a literal sense for a change). So who knows? Maybe I am asking for too much after all.
Haha, height is a good one. How tall are you? I'm not exceptionally tall, but I'm taller than all of my female friends and a couple of my male ones so I know how annoying it can be
Exactly a quarter inch under 6', which is why I always where really thin flat flip flops. lol If I'm in thick sneakers or heels, I can be anywhere from 6'1" to 6'3". Hence the height issue. I've dated plenty of shorter guys (even dramatically so), but I have to admit height is my one even slight physical hang-up. I couldn't care less what a guy looks like in general if he's honestly a good guy... but I like having to look up even a little bit if I'm going to kiss a guy. Besides, it's weird enough with people staring at me like I'm a freaking giant all the time. So being with a tall guy just makes me feel more "normal". lol
Haha... wow, you're tall girl! Freak of nature Just kidding, just kidding. You are taller than I am, though. *le sigh* I always wanted to be tall like my father (He's 6'4") but I ended up stopping at a measly 5'8" lol.
lol yeah well, I've been this tall since the 8th or 9th grade. Imagine growing up with all of the "ooooh... you're going to be a model!" crap (when all I wanted people to care about was my brains), just to find out most guys at the time were terrified of me. lol Awkward. Got better obviously. It just seems most of the tall guys I know prefer extremely short girls. My sister's a little shorter than me, and going through the same thing though, so it's kind of funny watching it happen to her w/o having to re-live it (not to be mean). I have a cousin who's over 7'. Most in the family aren't tall though. My mom's 5'8", and that was considered huge when she was growing up. And now her youngest child is 5'10" and she whines about feeling short. But yes, ugh, it's hard finding tall guys. The tallest I've dated were 6'4". I'd really like to find someone at least 6'3", but I'd really be content enough if he were just my height or taller I suppose. I've also had guys tell me after becoming friends that they'd considered asking me out, but were too intimidated b/c of it. I swear I can't win sometimes. I'd like to know what happened to all of those guys that love tall girls that everyone used to so enthusiastically talk about when I was younger. lol C'est la vie.
What's with being intimidated by tall women? Ugh, I swear Jenn -- we can't win. We're always SOMETHING... too independent, too tall, too fat, too skinny, too whatever It's a never ending cycle.
lol I know. And we're far too easy on men in exchange you know. (well at least I am; I know many women probably aren't - but you don't quite strike me as the superficial type either).
Well, Jenn has a great smile And weren't you the hottest girl of DP Denise? So you both don't complain about yourselves.
Nope, I'm definitely not superficial. Like you were talking about before, I tend to go for the "dorky" guys (not that I can't appreciate a *traditionally* attractive man, of course). But I find the people I end up seriously involved with are the "dorks," lol.
Well, how could I just forget you? Maybe your face, but not body after I saw Nintendo's head montaged on your body
If you mean the girl with a hot temper.. she mite b a serious contender Man.. I jst cant sleep ... insomnia
lol Definitely don't knock "dorks". I did the "bad boy" thing when I was young, and got into the more traditionally attractive guys in college a bit. Maybe it was the engineering background or something, but I definitely go for dorky guys now.. there's not much hotter than a guy who can really challenge me in an intellectually stimulating conversation... especially if we disagree. The problem is that they're often so damned shy that they never seem be out anywhere to actually meet them! lol Oh well. You know no one's going to forget Denise. That's what you get for posting bikini shots in a male-dominated forum. haha And thanks leet. ... not really complaining about myself though; rather how people react to certain things about me. Personally, I absolutely love being tall, and couldn't imagine it any other way. Besides, it's too cute when half the time I go the grocery store I have little old ladies asking me to reach things for them. I must look really approachable or something, b/c I seem to attract the sweet little old ladies like bees to honey. lol Ah, if only it worked like that with dorks! j/k