I think this may be a better place for this question. I have site that is borderline when it comes to the TOS (mostly fight videos from youtube), but I want to create my own ads on it that will direct to sites that have adsense and are fine in terms of the TOS. Is this okay?
Well, why don't you read the adsense terms? https://www.google.com/adsense/support/bin/answer.py?answer=48182
yes it's fine to send traffic from your non-adsense site to your other one. I think both answerers should read the original question to avoid being off topic!