Vbulletin popup menu controls

hey guys... i really need your help... i am a total newb when it comes to webdesign and coding...
i have just upped a vb forum (http://www.shark-attack.org/forum) and modified its colors on the backend and almost everything is fine... except two things i just cant find how to fix... i dont even know if its this popup menu controls and has to do with code u have to enter manually, i know nothing. :/

if you for example click on a username, the profile box is not that grey colour which i want like the rest of the forum style... its something like blue and i cant find where to change this... i am searching for hours now... even funnier, i think when you click on a username and the box opens, for half a second the box is grey but then becomes that blue color...

second problem is i dont know where to fix the colour of the border of the whole forum... its blue again and i need a dark grey there...

If anyone could help me i would be soooo happy... i can even pay you a few bucks via paypal if you would be willing to login and do this quickly... i just need it quickly and i dont think its a big task for somebody who knows at all...

please pm me or even better add me on msn

Thank you so much.

George