The video is on http://www.venicehotelsnear.com/ I have updated the video on homepage of the my website. I think to have 2 big problems : a) is the Homepage too slow to load because the video is too heavy ? is it too slow ? Do you have some solution ? [ I would like to use youtube.com, but with youtube.com I can't have the trigger. Can you help me ? ] b) the video is in Flash. Can all see the video ?
well i can slove your problem and i have very good skills for it. And it is bicause of the format you used.
You can use FLV as video format and make a web-based FLV player to stream FLV on your site. If you want to make the page load faster, you can make the flash video not auto load when the page opens (http://www.playerdiy.com/configuration/playback/auto-load-video.html) You can check Moyea Web Player (http://www.playerdiy.com/), which is a quick solution to make custom Flash video player for website. This is detailed tutorial - http://www.playerdiy.com/support/tutorial/customize-flash-video-player.html