Read the sticky thread at the top of the forum and this tells you everything you need to know. If you have suggested the site you cant do anything else other than HURT your chances of being included. Just keep waiting and hopefully one day it may be listed.
It seems that you misunderstood snooks' post so I'll spell it out for you. Do not re-suggest your website. Doing so is against our T&C and can, at best, delay matters.
Maybe that is your problem. If you submitted more than once, then you have hurt your chances of getting listed!!!