you must put your hard work for upto 3 months ; then definetly you will get success results for your sites. Buy paid links of high PR sites. Atleast PR4,5 sites of related to dating niche of 50 sites for to gain backlinks of good sites will improve your site in traffic.
link i said there are easier ways. and buying PR4 links can work too.... but PR ranks are only renewed every 3 months. isnt it too long
Competition is very heavy in dating niche, but there are many ways to generate traffic. One of the tricky ones - to purchase online dating profiles. There are few site specializing on it. It will help to attract the initial customers.
You can get more and more trafic by link exchange with other dating website.Link Exchange one of the easy and best way.