So tell me just how offensive this is. I was on the couch with my daughter and my wife was reading the news. She told me about the tragedy of John Travolta's son dying in the shower in an epileptic seizure. My response was "Hey, maybe L. Ron Hubbard can resurrect him." On a scale of 1 to 10 with 10 being the most offensive, just how bad is that? I thought it was pretty funny. She didn't seem to think so.
Well how would you feel if (touch wood) that happen to one of your loved ones and a DP member said that ? On offensive scale : off the scale
What we think is not relevent -- your wife thought it was offensive and that's all that matters. Go kiss and make up.