the top 10 way to be happy

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by maha123, Mar 5, 2010.

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    How do you know if you are truly happy? What does it mean? Happiness is a compound and complex emotion, but its broad definition is what makes it accessible to everyone. Check through this list and consider how frequently you experience each of these sensations. There is a positive correlation between that frequency that you feel those things and your perception of how 'happy' you are. If you're not feeling so great, choose one item at a time and put yourself in a situation where you're bound to encounter it.

    1. Relaxation
    When you are truly relaxed, you are receptive and calm. Disappointments and challenges are not a threat to your peace. Relaxing can be as simple as three deep breaths at your desk, or as deep as meditation or yoga.

    2. Achievement
    To set your sights on a goal, persevere past obstacles and setbacks, and finally see the goal to fruition is a powerful act. Start with small, easily attainable goals.

    3. Health
    Health of body, mind and spirit. When all systems are running smoothly and in harmony, life looks pretty darn good.

    4. Fun
    Doing things that make you laugh actually has a chemical effect on your mood. Play with your kids or pets, watch a funny movie or just go out and whoop it up.

    5. Expression
    Learn how to get your point across--even if it may never be heard by anyone else. Paint it, say it, sing it, write it, lift it, twirl it, jump around about it. Think your thoughts, feel your feelings, but be free from them.

    6. Wisdom
    Educate yourself. Wisdom and knowledge are two very different things, but you should collect as much of both as you can. Spend time with wise and educated people. Go places where you will learn things.

    7. Exhilaration
    There is an implication of a tiny bit of fear with this word. Exhilaration comes with an extreme experience, where a fear has been faced, conquered and thoroughly enjoyed.

    8. Inspiration
    This may come from above, from within or from another mortal like yourself. Be in awe of something or someone. Know that there is always something bigger than you out there and strive to be closer to it.

    9. Energy
    Do something with gusto and enthusiasm, even if it's a little out of character. Vim and vigor are not a couple of circus performers. It's hard to be down with a spring in your step.

    10. Fulfillment
    What do you do that makes you feel whole? Do it more often.
     
    maha123, Mar 5, 2010 IP
  2. Warner

    Warner Active Member

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    I appreciate this list of advices - and want to add some more: if you want to be happy - just be happy and that's all:) This tip has always help me to increase my mood.
     
    Warner, Mar 5, 2010 IP
  3. powerlifer

    powerlifer Active Member

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    if you want to be happy drink a bottle of vodka every night, nah only kidding:).

    nice list.
     
    powerlifer, Mar 5, 2010 IP
  4. Mentalhead

    Mentalhead Active Member

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    I guess that someone will find this useful, thanks for sharing :D
     
    Mentalhead, Mar 5, 2010 IP
  5. fancymouj

    fancymouj Peon

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    Just 2 pag whisky .. enough for me ..:cool:

    I don't think so ..:p
     
    fancymouj, Mar 5, 2010 IP
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    dairyman Notable Member

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    There are more ways to be happy apart from the listed 10 points...
    One thing is being content.
     
    dairyman, Mar 5, 2010 IP
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    And how do you achieve #1 very quickly? Drugs!
     
    terminator69, Mar 5, 2010 IP
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    Larry S:) Well-Known Member

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    Healthy Body , Mind and Soul. Nice list , thank you for sharing
     
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    pratishtha Well-Known Member

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    useful info. i would like to add positive attitude towards life.. it's really very helpful in being happy.. just be +ve in every phase of your life.. even if there is something going wrong then be +ve just don't panic and try to solve it instead of getting sad ! i've tried it and that's why i'm always happy..
     
    pratishtha, Mar 5, 2010 IP
  10. sweatlana

    sweatlana Well-Known Member

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    Very nice and useful information to be remain happy and healthy.
    thanks dude.
     
    sweatlana, Mar 6, 2010 IP