yeh write unique content..make 2 3 posts everyday...google will index ur pages in few days i tink a week or so?
Yeah.... that's a sure fire way. You can have one of Richie's sig links for the very reasonable sum of $70 per month!
Ping a lot each time you post. I use pingomatic.com, it's very easy and fast. I also submit my url to google and yahoo. You can just type "submit url yahoo" (or google) on yahoo/google search box and that's where you'll post your blog's url. Indexing might take a week or more, though. Link exchanges with websites of similar theme will help you get indexed, too.
how can we search blog that have similar theme like us ? whats the command ? is it blog + divorce ( example )...to put the comments there..
+1 for pinging. Set yourself up with Google's webmaster tools so you can let them know whenever there is a change in content. Yahoo lags quite a bit but has a similar tool called Site Explorer. Then go over and use Pingomatic or Pingoat to let a bunch of blog related services know about you as well.
So it sounds like Pingomatic works better than the built-in pinger in the Blogger settings? Those are all good indexing suggestions. If you have another blog or site you can add a link to your new one there, that'll help too.