I think the god should pull me through as I have been a short, chubby, unattractive and unfortunate man for more than a decade and I didn't even find any point that pushes me to continue my life. I look forward to death but I am not courageous enough to shoot my head because of my family. I think the god would better kill me by a traffic accident or something like that.
Don't be so pessimistic my friend. God creates all beings with a purpose. You may not yet know why you are here, why not take the opportunity to discover? Every human being is a contributor to society. You can contribute even more with a more positive attitude. Cheers!
You need a goal in life to carry on. It can be anything- try setting health related goals- they will help you stay alive and kicking!!!
Buddy, what is wrong. Telling out what had happened to you ? Life is precision and your family don't want see you like that .
Try to look on the bright side and be optimistic. Nobody can be perfect and someone will always has something lacking in their life. Simple things like be thankful to have your family members to love you, food to eat, should give you enough reasons to stay happy and enjoy life.
Please do not think like that. God is very kind to all, I have read one article in India on one handicap man. He lost his one leg in childhood, but due to his courage, confidence and will power he is state level badminton champion and he can use be bicycle so easily and living very good life, just think we can not stand properly by one feet he is playing on state level. He never thought like you. Think positive and be optimistic. You should find your plus point, develop it and gain your confidence. It is a matter of time only. Sun rises every day after dark night. Cheer up. All the best.
The times are such that you will not be alone sailing in such a boat.... The key is to have faith and get yourself moving every single day...Do not think about too distant a future and try to live for the day... Have positive attitude every morning as the day begins.... The only thing constant in this world is change....Hence even this bad phase will change!! Be sure of that..... Regards, RightMan
You're saying, you can't shoot yourself because of your family. C'mon.. with a loving family, you still are unfortunate? So, issue is your looks? And you don't have nothing positive? Just discover and you'd find many. Before that, you'd need to ignore this looks part if you're so conscious. And BTW, I've seen so many short, chubby, unattractive but NOT unfortunate people who're actually eye candies for many.. Yes, people love them because they're good at heart, they're funny, they've explored their looks only in such damn positive manner and MADE people love them. Forget the looks and discover what you've in you. Chill & Cheers
From your words I hope you believe in God. And what you’re thinking to do is completely wrong. If you believe in God, remember that God forbids us to do this kind of activity. There’re so many points those will encourage you to continue your life. Discover it and think positively. Don’t become a sitting duck sitting at home. There’s always a break from God. Do you plan to die when you get a break!!! Pray to your God for you, for your family and for the world. Invite your God to your heart. You need him; you need his help to fulfill your life as he ordered. So far away to go, so many things to do my friend. Don’t destroy yourself thinking a loser, because there’s no good in it.
You're not alone, many of us have felt the same, at some point. Yet death is final, the end. You can no longer enjoy music, the sunlight, fresh air, laughter, puppies playing, a good cup of coffee, cake, a rain storm, a hot bath...etc. Try to take some comfort in simple things for now. You'll find that nothing stays the same, and the saying that it is always darker just before dawn, is absolutely true. I'm sure there is something good waiting for you right around the corner.
Thats awful you can't go through life being so negative, being negative attracts bad things and karma rather have a happy healthy out look on life and you will see that being positive and happy you will attract just that in your life. I hope that you try this and see how it works out for you.
Find a goal in life and do everything to reach it. There is one guy I knew who had an car accident, he watched his family burn to death inside the car and couldn't help them. Even he managed to rise again. You think you have nothing to live for, but it is all mental man, try to see beyond that. Good luck. To myself too.
My friend God only helps those who try to help themselves. Short? ugly? Life not worth living? That all you got wrong with you?? Man count your blessings! Theres lots of people who wish that was all they had wrong with them! What if you couldn't see? what if you couldn't hear? What if you couldn't walk and had to be confined to a bed all day? You need to get rid of that petty self-pity. Quit being so selfish and get out there and enjoy the life the lord gave you.
hey buddy... if you think that you are unfortunate, then think the people in the warzone.. you are very fortunate compared to them.. rather than counting your disadvantages, just count you advantages and blessing that God has gave you and you will amazed on how many of them... life is so precious....
I am 6.2 tall, fair, good-looking but all in my 26 year life, i never got girlfrieds for more than 4-5 months. I never had good helping friends, i never had supporting causins all my life i did pray to lord and continue my life supporting my family. I hope god showers his mercy on you. For you i'll give one magic word - "Be positive" tell yourself this word when ever your are feeling lonely or down, it works...