Guess it really depends what country your from. In Canada, home of the Canadian Beaver, we are aloud to touch for a price! I once dated a real hottie that absolutely despised 'the club' and became enraged when she knew I was there (not sure how she knew, smell or something ). One day we got into a heavy discussion about this and I learned she was mad about what she didn't know! So I suggested to her that I take her to the dance and she sit with me while I enjoy the atmosphere. Then I would recipricate by going to a male strip club with her, she agreed . One thing I can tell you I learned was WOMEN ARE NUTS IN STRIP JOINTS. They make men look like church goers . Unfortunatley our relationship didn't work out, but it wasn't from lack of trying!
My cousin worked as a bartender at one for a long time and I have a couple of friends that dance. Once you see the behind the scenes part of a club it gets real scary. There’s just something about watching 4 strippers squatted down next to a dumpster taking hits from a make shift coke bottle bong that loses it’s appeal. As far as women going to a strip club I have no problem. I don’t think I’d be with a woman that got turned on by an oiled up man in knee high leather tasseled boots and a thong on shaking his butt to Madonna. Yeah it’s crazy how women act with male strippers. They become some type of animals. When I was 18 I worked as an electrician and this lady asked me if I was interested in dancing for a party for some extra money. Apparently it was a molest-some-young-boy-while-he-wears-his-tool-belt-and-fruit-of-the-looms party. In all fairness I was doing the robot, running man, and cabbage patch.
Come on, live a little Strippers are people too. I don't know why we all just can't get along. So what if they get invited to a bachelor/bachelorette party, take their clothes off, rub their lubed up parts all over people's faces and then leave with a wad of cash? At least you have the memories after they leave.
My cousin and several of his friends were going to a strip club about 3 times a week for a few months. Two of the guys actually paid for lap dances so they could lick the strippers (you know, there). I mean to me there’s just something wrong with paying a woman $20 so you can put your mouth on her for the duration of the song “I want candyâ€. Never put your mouth anywhere on a stripper. Several years ago I went with some friends to a club because it was one of my friends birthday. It was a cheap hole in the wall place where if money fell out of a guy’s pocket the stripper would go down to pick it up and come up 15 minutes later. I sat there and spoke with a woman that didn’t know any English for probably about an hour. Every 10 minutes my cousin would tell me “Ask her if she wants a website.†“I don’t know how to say do you want a website in Spanish.†After about an hour she said she liked me and did the unthinkable. She leaned in to kiss me. I slapped my hand up on her forehead so fast. RRRRRRRRRRcctttt. She asked me what was wrong and why I didn’t want a kiss. I didn’t know how to say “because you have a dirty stripper mouth†in Spanish so I just pretended I didn’t know any Spanish then. Yeah I've seen that too. Don't pull it. It will not make them say fun little phrases. I actually pointed the string out and she said I can't afford to be off for a week every month. Makes sense.
OMG, take the freaken week off with pay...on me! What could possibly be more important that your hygiene and health? That is, well, kinda discusting! I support your decision on NOT kissing her. Everytime I go to these places one of them sticks her tongue out at me. My response is 'Are you gonna put that back in your mouth'. One time (along time ago when I was married) I went to the dance and had a VERY dirty dance. When it was over I left the building the smell was so bad got in my car and it was even worst. How can I go home like this? I stopped at a gas station, filled up and splashed gasoline on my pants where this stripper was sitting. When I got home I told the wife the reason I was late was because I had car problems. Then I B lined straight up to the shower and scrubbed. *True story*