I also suggest StatCounter. I find their service very good. It includes live statistics and all the other features you mentioned, except for the bounce rate. Banners on a third-party website are shown as a referring page.
I agree that if you are using wordpress the best thing to get is Google Analytics with the corresponding plugins...if you are looking for something that you can get up to minute stats on...I would recommend histats.com because its really worked out well for me in the past...I have little counters on every single page of every site i own.
i've been using the closed beta from keywords-live.com for the real time tracking of my keywords for the last couple months. Good luck getting in.. it's not free, but it's great for my needs.