If someone else redirects (301, permanently moved) their penalized domain to mine, will google penalize my website and take off my site from SERP?
Nope, a 301 redirect across domains won't pass bad link juice i believe. Were you planning on doing it to someone? hahah
This is certainly not possible, you need backend access of your website to redirect domains. So, no need to worry.
Stumbled across this thread for a second time- it's still probably worth notifying Google of the offending site, stating you have no connection; better safe than sorry. WebDev
if you are making 301 redirect the you can not redirect the spamming work to other. You can make redirection with in your htaccess only not for others htaccess.