Some feel good advice please?

Okay, so I met this guy in a club a few weeks ago. Swapped numbers etc and spent every day since together. Dinner, cinema etc etc. Just totally clicked and he's a really nice guy. He's met my best friends etc. Then at the weekend he met my step-dad (wasn't planned) but afterwards he said how my step-dad was really cool.

Anyway he's just gone on an 18-30 holiday to Zante for a week with his best friend. It was obviously booked long before we met. We had a discussion when we met about cheating etc and he said he could never do that etc.

But just find that I keep thinking about it, the drink, the temptation etc. And I'm really missing him already. It's doing my head in as he's out there enjoying himself and I don't want to mope around for the next week.

Just need to take my mind off it but no idea how? Any suggestions?

Apologies for sounding like a pathetic girl, lol.

 

ru a girl or a guy .. etc.. etc ??

 

the clue is in the post!

 

A girl .

 

If it was the other way round would you cancel the trip if it was booked before you met him?

 

Nah, I didn't want him to cancel the trip at all. He has a stressful job offshore and it's the first break he's had since Xmas, so totally glad he has a holiday to relax. But never thought I'd miss him this much. Maybe it's just my insecuritys..who knows.

 

That's a real drag. I'm sure he's thinking about you too regardless of him being on holiday.

You just have to make yourself go out, even when you don't want to, and have a good time. A month goes by pretty quickly.

 

if he has a cell phone call him

 

He is probably missing you too.. You're just feeling a little insecure.. Go out and party with your girlfriends, have a good time.. he will be back before you know it..

 

It seems that you like that guy,just be patient,if he like you 2,he will contact you.I know it is hard for a girl like,go and listen some music,that might be useful for you.

 

Thanks for the replies guys. I actually feel better. Had a girls nite in at the weekend then last night he texted me . I didn't want to text/call him on holiday and seem all clingy or whatever, lol.

 

I think you should think about this:

Do you trust this guy? If yes then get it out of your mine.
This was planned and you knew it was coming.

 

have another girls night out/in and relax, if you are thinking he is cheating, then it shows you have little trust in him, and thats a bad start to what could be a very nice relationship for you both, he'll feel that, contrary to popular belief guys ain't 100% stupid.
just text him back and say missing you.




















99% stupid