I do not get any of these vibes or feelings come off from my girlfriend at all. Although, I have met some girls who try to use men to their advantage and get what they can / want. A girl who knew I crushed her during my freshman year of high school tried to use me in our junior year and capitalize on the previous days of thinknig about her. Unfortunately for her, I saw right through her tactics, and also terminated my feelings for her before freshman year was even over.