hello every one this is my first post here , i am very Desperate , i just want to talk to you to any body because i am getting mad , i loved a girl for 5 years very much , she left me alone yes that's true she did that . now she is engaged to another man ,shit !!!!! she said i love you i can't live without you we have done a lot of things Together really i don't know what to say . i don't know how to live without her i loved her so much by the way there is no reason for what she did i , I gave her everything , she destroyed every thing in just seconds . i don't know if i can get over this or not ? this is really bad feelings . Can you forget everything simply , our memories and our love ooh my god what is happening to me . i didn't deserve that , why she said " i love you " ! ? why she did that i tried to stay with her but she Decided to through everything away and start anew life , please i need your support . what should i do ? i want to get over this , i want to forget every thing !!!!!!!!!!!
You must always remember, your value as a person does not revolve around anothers simple affections. the pain you must now endure will ensure the joy that you find in your future.
I feel you mate, be strong! you will get over it when time goes by. For now, friends are the most important
Getting over it is easier said than done, but do stuff so you don't have to think about it. I mean do you have hobbies? I'm a drummer so whenever something bad happens I start drumming and make new remixes etc, it's pretty amusing and by the time I can really think about bad stuff I'm usually already over it because my hobbies took so much time
giorgioarmani thanks very much ------------------------------------- Gadgets-4G yes that's true , i will keep it in mind ------------------------------------- nihangshah not so fast ha ! ------------------------------------- FreeTheNoob something like that ! -------------------------------------- hanz08 I really appreciate your advice -------------------------------------- Aquarezz yes i already have hobbies but i am still study so i have no much time for it , but i will try . thanks --------------------------------------- w3bmaster good words , but i think this not very easy like you said . thanks for all
This is heartbreaking stuff man, 5 years together and then she upped and left you. It's happened to me too, but my relationship was much more casual than this. Did you talk to her and ask her why she was leaving? did she give you reasons? If not, this can be very hard to deal with, because you bang you head against the wall trying to think where you went wrong and blame yourself for something totally beyond your control. My own relationship ended over a year ago, I am over it now, but there is hardly a day goes by when I don't think of that lady, one day she just stopped talking to me, no explanation, nothing, that was what hurt the most, because it left me dangling, I tried everything to get her to talk to me, but she refused, man that hurt. There is no telling what goes on in a woman's head, maybe it's something to do with their hormones that make them treat their partners with such disregard, they seem to have no idea, nor care, how hurtful they are. It is going to take some time to get over this guy, time is the only thing that will make things better, you have got to keep busy, put yourself about and try not to dwell on it too much, which I know is easier said than done, but do it you must otherwise it will destroy you. Try and meet someone else as soon as you can. Take care guy and good luck
Don't be offended but I would like to know if you're earning much money to support both of your needs.
tiddles I really appreciate your words, she left me for no reasons and if so i have done a lot of beautiful things to her so she must forgive me , that's love someone make mistakes and the other forgive him that's life we are humans not angels and she made a lot of mistakes Then she comes back again to regret its actions . only pain or nothing from her but i still love her so much , that's really hurt ! I am a civil engineer and I can not focus on anything I am doing , my life just stopped ! i just want to talk to her and ask her why? why you did that ? you hurt me ? you broke my heart ? oh my god , when she talked to me , " the last time " , i told her i need you , i can't live without you . but she simple said i have nothing to do with that !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i was shocked by her words and then she told me about her relationship with the new guy .at this moment , I can not describe my sense of pain . so i just closed the phone and I could not stop my tears . yes i cried !! i proudly did that ! now i have nothing more to say , just feel some pain , i just want her back i want to fix every thing but i know that she won't give me any chance to do that , so i want to forget her i want to forget every thing no more love !
alodia you ask me about money ? hello guy i am strong man with broken hurt money is not the problem . i hate money ! can you believe that . any way thanks for your replay !
You can choose one of these: 1. Get a cute and true loving girl better than her. 2. Kill her 3. Hang yourself
Time will heal everything, just believe that everything has happened for good. You can control your life and thoughts but not her's...so take your time out and things will fall back in place. You have just one life. If she cared for you the same way, this would not have had happened. you have better stuff in life. Chill out dude. Dont worry! cheers Josh
I dont know the whole story its just your story you sure you write everything here..? because without any reason why she broke up with you..?
Yes, relationships are always unexpected. We can never know what will happen in the future. One day you're both great, the next day you're not.
OP, sorry, wrong forum. This is a webmaster's forum and not a dating one. Although you'll find some sensible answers here, the best thing that you can do is to talk with your family, friends or relatives.
You should refresh your mind and memory. Go to Vegas, make some gambling and meet new wonderful girls and everything will be fine. You have to go forward and do not let the past pushing you down.