She is too shy about verbalizing sexual needs and desires?

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by noah2, May 12, 2008.

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    I am in a very committed and loving relationship with my Russian Fiancée for over one year. We met online, had intense discussions via phone and comp for 5 months before meeting in person. When we first met, she was curious about sexual desires and we cybered a few times. She was always very positive and told me that we were very compatible sexually. In person when we met, she waited the first evening after a romantic meeting and dinner. Our chemistry was incredible, and the second day I couldn’t keep her off me. I was always a gentleman and was considerate in making sure she was ok with any progression of lovemaking. Since our meeting, she makes positive innuendos as to our sexuality together, but if I start to become aroused in our conversation, she drops the subject as if she is shy or does not want it to go further. I know she desires to be with me and I am certain she is faithful. My question and bewilderment is; given our level of intimacy and trust together, and the fact we had a mutually compatible sexual experience, why would she seemingly have no interest in expressing her sexual feelings or wanting to culminate them with me via phone comp, especially since I know she enjoyed it at the beginning of our relationship? I am very puzzled. Any ideas from a Russian woman’s perspective? By the way, she is 23 and very intelligent and sophisticated.

    Thanks for any ideas you may have.
     
    noah2, May 12, 2008 IP
  2. w3bmaster

    w3bmaster Notable Member

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    #2
    Man last time i checked this was a webmaster forum

    Secondly rusians girls are like we know they are for the money and sex i thikin she is playing you like a fool ...
     
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  3. ServerUnion

    ServerUnion Peon

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    Why don't you ask her, or just tell her you are very rich.
     
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    0lgi Notable Member

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    Noah , personally I would let a third person "male" enter in your show and see how will the russian girl react. I can play the role if needed ;)
     
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    Seqqa Well-Known Member

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    Yeah I second that, if you want my advice your much better off finding a love forum if they do them in the deep dark interwebs?!?!?
     
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    clinton Well-Known Member

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    Just go for it.:D Just bring up the fact that she's always talking about sex.:D
     
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    chtdatweb Well-Known Member

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    #7
    I think i know how to solve your problem. Next time you meet together and things start getting hot and sweaty... jump and do the....

    CHICKEN DANCE :D :D :D
     
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    clinton Well-Known Member

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    Turn on some sexy music, switch it to a sexualy stimulating tv show and sit beside here with oyur arms around here. Oh yeah and turn the heat up(Thermostat that is:D).

    Than Pull out the........boose/chapagn what ever is better.

    Than pull a magic trick. you know it's no fun without the magic stick:D:D
     
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    ЄxDeus™ Well-Known Member

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    Shes your Fiancée, and you dont understand her? :confused: how long you been together?
     
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    EvcRo Notable Member

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    the best answer you could get may be giving right from your fiancée only...she's the one you should ask...your problems can be solved only with a good communication:)
     
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    heheheheh, Excuse me while I laugh at you... lol....
     
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    Spider-Man Banned

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    #12
    If she won't give it for free, give it like all the russians take it - with a 5 dollar bill.

    You think I'm joking, too.

    :D
     
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    locomotion Well-Known Member

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    It's the matter of trust. You choose to trust, you have it. If you dont, you lose it.
     
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    clinton Well-Known Member

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    Why don't you say, "wanna fuck?":D
     
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    Num Lock Active Member

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    #15
    is this a mail order bride or something?
     
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