it's ok for me, not the fastest site, but it loads. I would remove the calendar, and only use the social media icons without the text, and put them in one line. The blog roll should not be so far at the top. You don't want people leaving your blog immediately for another site. Maybe think about reducing the number of categories. They're too many.
hi your site is really nice but it has extra stuff also it take too much time to load I think you should remove calendar and should make vertical menu navigation short it looks more preety and attractive and instead of using three coulomb layout you should use two coulomb layout.
Theme design and color looks ok to me, just have a feel of lot of menus in top, sidebar and around. People may be confused of which to click and move on.
ohh, dude, its loading too slow. Its the biggest - point of your site and in the bottom lot of free empty space.