Could you please look at our site. It is not getting spidered from Google in 1 month. We have given it about 5 inbound lnks and one of them is a PR 5 home page from a related site. It is adult but not porn. Please PM me if you could help tell me why it is not getting spidered. Could it just be time? Or....Never had this problem in 5 years with sites from Google.
I think you do not have enough back links you should continue to build links and the search engines will index your site.