check out http://www.tinymovieworld.com Its a funny/anime video site. My gf owns it. We also run http://www.scaryvdo.com which is a horror video site please review it as well. Thanks!
Your girlfriends site is definitely a girlie site. I like it, it's well put together in my opinion I like your site too, they are very similar Yours is hard to read though with black background and red fonts, your UPLOAD navigation button is also barely visible because of this. All in all I like them both very much and if that were my thing I would visit your sites. Best of luck to both of you.
I actually like the scaryvdo site a lot. Nice color combo and a tight layout. However, I've never been a fan of those half-screen-tall headers though