like on digg.com or at least mayb like this site: http://www.defsounds.com/news/Shady_records_explains_obie_trices_sudden_departure i noticed both sites i mentioned have a vote a comment "up or down" option but thats is not what im looking for...im just looking for a "reply to" comment system for wordpress..???
I think you are talking about threaded comments or nested comments - http://meidell.dk/archives/2004/09/04/nested-comments/