Look again dear... It should be on your right hand side. Look for those blue text links. If you still cannot see it, it means that there is something wrong with your site verification. Have you done that in the 1st place?
It should be there. Make sure you've done a thorough wash of your site and backlinks to make sure there isn't anything they don't like going on. Otherwise, the reinclusion request could backfire.
how much time does it take them to reinclude? they say.. can be several months.. lol my site also doesnt show in google cos of duplicate content .