Real friends are flexible friends

Hi eveyone,
Iam flexible to my friends at any given situation. Are you? If you are not, what are the situations that might arise at which you are not agreeable to be flexible?
Post your discussion.
Regards
Ramakrishna

 

If my friend would ask me "could i have a go with your Girlfriend?"

Then a problem would arise........

 

i tend to let people walk all over me unfortunatly, i give up my needs and put others before mine. its shot me in the butt a couple of times, but i love to help people..

 

People are people. All the help you give people when things are going good for you will be returned 10 fold when you are down and out. That's just the way the world works IMO. Sure there are people that will take advantage, but in my experience, your friends are your friends.

 

What friendship only between same status? Can it be between rich and poor?

 

Here is a flexible friend...

 

Lol. Very flexible.

And money matters shouldn't affect a friendship.

 

So True: If i had given something to a friend i don't expect
nothing back in return:the fastest way to lose a friend is loan him money..so then when i loan i don't consider it a loan but a gift. If you do loan make a contract that way there is know doubt its a loan. I truly believe in "Karma" What goes around comes around. People will tried to take advange of you so listen to your heart and instints when dealing with these type of individual. My favorite saying is "if it looks like a Duck, Quacks like a Duck--than well it is a Duck". If you believe in "Karma" than being fexiable is a good thing,right?

 

I'm not flexible with my friends when they ask me to do anything which goes against my principles.

I'm also not flexible when my friends want me to do things, that would interfere with my work and future goals.

I've ended many friendships with people I used to know who just couldn't see eye to eye.

 

Sounds like you outgrew them....

 

Yeah thats true. Its hard to be successful in life when you're friends with people who want to work for other people for their rest of their lives and hang out at strip clubs all the time.

 

Friends are just Friends.
No expectation so no frustration.

 

so true man money is only thing that breaks the friendship.money is to be kept out for flexible friendship

 

True! I lost one good friend by giving loan.

 

Nice Advice Dudy.

 

I second with sunil

 

Being flexible is good, life's a give and take. I used to have selfish people as friends who made their lives more important than anyone else's. That's no good. You need to have each others' back, not just worry about your own.

 

I am flexible as long as my main priorities are covered.

 

I think blogmaster has experienced some flexible friendships in the last couple of months. People were paying for hosting to keep his sites up, and I am sure a lot more than that.