Question for girls.

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by Jerlene.net, Aug 25, 2007.

  1. #1
    Yes, I'm a girl too but I have guy tendencies when it comes to certain things. lol

    So, there's this girl. We kind of had this stupid little thing a while back. She told me about her new girlfriend or hook up(can't remember). She showed me a picture of her and I said something like "Eww, not my type. I like the girl next to her. You can have this one. All yours." lmao:D Rarely ever do I think before speaking but anyway, we haven't spoken since. I think it was like 2 months ago or something.

    So to the question - Is it ok to talk to her now or...not?
     
    Jerlene.net, Aug 25, 2007 IP
  2. Realm

    Realm Well-Known Member

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    that depends...do you want to talk to her? you should keep your friends close to you
     
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    Jerlene.net Prominent Member

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    Yah, I kind of want to talk to her. She's probably still mad though. She's like that. :rolleyes:
     
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    Realm Well-Known Member

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    the thing is...you never know until you try;) its like I like a girl and want to ask her out but am afraid she would reject me...so the only way I would know is by asking her out :)
     
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    #5
    You can always go for it. It will not hurt
     
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    Realm Well-Known Member

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    opps my bad:eek:...I just realized this question was only for girls
     
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    Jerlene.net Prominent Member

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    She'll find a way to make it hurt. lol She's pretty vicious.
    It's cool. Nice to get an idea from both sides.
     
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    mixke Prominent Member

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    Never knew that :D :p ;)

    * out of the thread as this is for gals * :p
     
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    Jerlene.net Prominent Member

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    Nah, it would be good to hear some suggestions from everyone. I think a lot of guys could relate to my side of it. I say "Get over it. It was a while ago." :)
     
    Jerlene.net, Aug 25, 2007 IP
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    She's pretty stupid to get upset on your opinion anyways...and it sounded she was showing you the pic out of spite and to get u jealous!
     
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    Jerlene.net Prominent Member

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    That's what I thought and I guess it showed when I voiced my opinion as harshly as I did. hah
     
    Jerlene.net, Aug 25, 2007 IP
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    #12
    I don't even like it when someone reacts that way to something I am eating that they don't like...talking about food here :D

    I think maybe her feelings got hurt even though it sounds like you said it in jest, joking a bit. I guess if it's important to talk to her - you might need to apologize even if you think you did nothing wrong.

    though, it could also be a coincidence that she hasn't spoken to you or no??
     
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    Jerlene.net Prominent Member

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    It wasn't a joke though and she knew that. It's not a coincidence that she's not speaking to me. We spoke daily. I know it's because of this.
    Not my fault her girlfriend's a dog. I told her all that matters is that she likes her, not what I think but it was too late I guess.
    Oh well.
     
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    If you really want to talk to her, I would go for it. I am the kind of person who holds a grudge and will not be the first one to do anything about it. I didn't talk to my brother for 8 months because he leaned against my new car. We actually lived together during those 8 months. I still wouldn't be talking to him if he didn't start talking to me.
     
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    Jerlene.net Prominent Member

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    Wow. You sound just like me. I haven't talked to my brother since November '06. He lives in the front house and yesterday he came over to tell me he'll be fogging the dog cage and I just shook my head.

    Anyway, I'll talk to her first then. I'm always the one giving in. She always has to "win", ALWAYS. It's irritating.
     
    Jerlene.net, Aug 25, 2007 IP
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    I thought the question was directed for girls, so how come only guys replied in this thread ? :p
     
    DevilHellz, Aug 26, 2007 IP
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    #17
    well, just do it, don't think of anything.. it will be seen whatever happens after your action. If you think too much before you do then you won't be able to do anything.. :D
     
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    Jerlene.net Prominent Member

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    There were females, too.

    Yah. I'll probably just tell her hi then bounce.
     
    Jerlene.net, Aug 26, 2007 IP