Question about first dating?

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by delhidon, Jun 10, 2008.

  1. #1
    Hi all, I want to know the experience of all the members here. Anyone suggest me how should I start flirting in my first date with a girl and how to read the eyes of her that she is also now in the mood of romance?
     
    delhidon, Jun 10, 2008 IP
  2. TheVccMatey

    TheVccMatey Peon

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    #2
    By the looks of things you live in India? This get a little more complicated but this is just about what I know..

    1) Be yourself. Don't pretend to be something else because its difficult to keep up with that. You'll keep slipping and this will create a sort of.. distance.. You'll end up getting hurt
    2) Talk to her first before you start dreaming. See if she's right for you.
    3) If she replies with short messages and keeps getting distracted while talking to you.. forget it..
    4) If she touches you now and again with a smile don't misunderstand her. Just be nice and cool but never go for the touch yourself
    5) To know whether she really likes you, you can ask one of her friends to sly it out or you can just ask her yourself after a while.
    6) Trust me, you'll know when its time :D
     
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    mr.sena Banned

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    #3
    can i fuck my gf in very first date?
    i mean she would agreed on it?
     
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  4. TheVccMatey

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    If she's a ****.. yeah. Have fun :D
     
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    atulperx Banned

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    #5
    delhidon bahi i am just 18km away from you , I will say that first call here to date in cp or any other place where you can find little crowd and do ask her about last affair otherwise their can be a problem , my friends went for date in janpath but that girls last boyfriend was chasing her and when she meet my friends they also came their and started beating him .But that was a public area so public saved him from that .

    So moral of the story is first date should be in near by place of our home if something happens wrongs we can escape from their :)
     
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    digitalduke Notable Member

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    #6
    Nice point made.
    Take her to some nice place, talk to her. Ask her about her stuffs, her friends, her families. Appreciate her feelings, make some comments if she needs to change things in legitimate way. Then take her to your favorite restaurant.
    After that, when u get home, call her and say you felt good that she came and had a really nice time.
    In the morning, give her a good morning call. And say you will be busy that day and ask her to call. Then when she calls... (Thats one sign) . talk nicely and you been working hard and thinking about the date.

    bla. bla. bla.... it works :D

    The main sutra is ( I know this from one song)
    A girl saying "See me, feel me , hear me, love me ,touch me". :D :D
    I hope you got the point.!

    Good luck! and be Good.!
     
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    humm बहादुर बच्चा

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    #7
    You need to just be yourself and relax. Roam around with hand in hand. Take her for a movie then some lunch/dinner. Drop her home, before she goes give her a small kiss on her hand. - That's enough. :)
     
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    #8
    Nice points here.. :D I might try it out
     
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    Hmmm looking by your advice i think we should call you love guru sir . :D . You must be having good experience in this .
     
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    #10
    :D
    I like this part of your post!
    So listen, guys. There are four ways before you can touch the lady! :D
    When you do it in just 2 steps, see and feel her before go straight touching her, you will get infraction by the girl. Just hope the girl won't get you banned from her heart. LOL
     
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    digitalduke Notable Member

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    LMFAO :D

    nice one..

    But i meant eventually. Not Immediate action. Because you have to wait for couple of days/posts to put some signatures in her heart. If you post bad, then definitely get banned.
    Its better if you consult with Mods (expertise) before you leap. :D
     
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    Mr. humm can play a good role for love mods . He must be having good experience in it .Just go little bit up anwd check his reply , don't you fell his reply cool one .
     
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    #13
    You may need to find a professional girlfreind. You're kind of over anxious and girls pick up on that. That's why guys with wives and girlfriends have an easier time.
     
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    #14
    Dating is an art. Keep working with the help of basics and you will succeed. Not girl will be your but if everything goes fine then you can have a good future also with her. :D
     
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    #15
    Well to be frank. Girls are the one who need to be handled with care. If s*x is always in one's mind, he/she can never get far in any relationship.

    If you respect a girl, I am sure she will respect your feelings too.

    Its not that I have had a lot of experiences, its just that whomever I dated, we went quite long. :)
     
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    #16
    hahaha...
    Yeah, sure.
    And you have to be careful. Many girls looks similiar these days. Just hope you don't touch another pishing girl! :D or you will loose your money when you fall asleep...
     
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    #17
    in your first date you must squeeze her ass
     
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    :D Too funny.....made me laugh green applied for post of the day :D
     
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    Lol if your going to go with some of the responses in this thread you'll probably just get done with harrasment or no second date.
     
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    HAHAHAHA...
    Yeah, and she will squeeze your balls! :D
     
    mimm, Jun 11, 2008 IP