So I have put a contact form on my site, which sends to my email (which is hosted on google apps...) So, I have to connect to smtp.gmail.com to send the mail, which ends up in the inbox on the same domain. I don't have any mail server running on my server because it is not necessary. Problem, however, is that when I click on "reply", it replies to the address it was sent TO. The From: is messed up because I am sending it through my own SMTP server, but the reply-to is right and yet it seems to be ignored. Any ideas?